People always like to be liked by others. How would you make others like you? Here in this article 3 ways are introduced to help you make yourself be liked by others. These 3 ways involves in your appearance, your similarity with others and your social circle.
First, people with pretty appearance tend to be more likely welcomed by others.
According to a survey by Canadian Federal Government, candidates with pretty appearance will win 2.5 times of votes than those people with ordinary appearance.
In a similar way, researchers from Pennsylvania had found that the accused people with pretty appearance will have twice possibility of not being sent to prison than those unattractive.
Therefore, you should take care of your own appearance. Make sure that you always keep a relatively good image.
Second, similarity will make others feel good.
We like people who have similarities with us. Whether those similarities lie in opinions, personality, family background or life style, we always have this tendency. That’s why you always find some sellers will start their own business from their own classmates, colleagues or people from the same hometown. Moreover, they will even imitate gestures, intonation and speaking way of their own guests. All those will potentially attract their guests.
Third, more frequency of contacts will win you popularity.
We all like people and things we are fond of many times. Familiarity will just affect one’s likes and hates and it can affect different decisions of us.
Once upon a time, there was an argumentative selection in Ohio in America. Before the selection, someone with very little possibility of winning changed his name into Brown which was very familiar to the audience and finally he won in the selection. His success just owed to it that Brown was a very popular and well accepted name of politicians in Ohio by then and people with the rights to vote chose him for familiarity of his changed name.
So we really should frequently contact someone if we are into him or her. Frequent contact will just help increase familiarity of each other.
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