When you can’t afford a house, you may feel it late and it’s an anxiety on investment. When you’re just targeting at other’s millions of income while you’re still waiting for a little amount of revenue, this is financial fear of yourself. Your professional expertise may outdate if the age changes. You have worry in knowledge when you spend money in various online courses. And the passage to an upward society group has been closed while the one to a lower society group has been opened. This is anxiety about your identity.
Various anxieties make people like ants in hot pot and hungry tiger in the forest. With those various anxieties, your inner heart would be eroded by nameless things.
Mr. Luo Su has ever said that unhappiness of different kinds may be partly caused by systems and partly be caused by one’s psychology. Unhappiness of most people shall be traced back to their own fault world value, ethics and life habits. As a personal human being, one should try her best to seek comfort in her inner heart, so as to gain happiness and only this route is feasible.
If you just chase for materialism unreasonably and pursue princiles in the forest endlessly, your soul will fall behing and your happiness will be buried into heavy pressure.
What is happiness? Where your happpiness lies? Are you happy?
Many people may chase for more questions and they may not able to find answers. In my opinion, everyone’s definition on happiness is not the same but it’s always unreliable to search for sense of happiness from materialism.
There’s an important theory in economy which is called “marginal utility reducing”. To make is more common, the more you enjoy one thing, the less satisfactory you will be with it until it comes to an end. Think about it, if you buy a mobile phone for just several days and you may rely on it at the beginning. And finally it just becomes a communication toll in a month or a year.
Your tiredness and boredom are two driving forces to manage their psychological activities but if you have too much boredom, you’ll tend to lose your interest in life.
Some common people may have similar experience. But they’re still running fast on a road of lacking behind. They may confront with the same tiredness when they come to the final point they want.
Where happiness lies? Someone may say that it lies in the process rather than in people’s eyes. However it should be a best practice of a good life itself. To make it simple, people who are always healthy, happy and peaceful are happy.
Some job seeking web has made sample investigation on workers who are satisfied with their own career in the Internet. However, what makes people unsatisfied is that about 80% of the workers consider that they’re just making money, not to mention to enjoy their work. Wish of people who are invested is to “have a weekend when they can really have a rest”.
When your work has just robbed your life and makes you become a slave of your work. It’s hard to say thay you will feel happy!
Hugo has said that animals are just live while people live a life.
Long Yingtai has ever written in this way, “when you feel that your work matters in your heart, then you have a sense of achievement. When your work promises your time rather than rob your life, then you have dignity. Your sense of establishment and dignity bring you happiness.”
Someone may say that it’s really out of my control because of the hardness in survival. Competence in career is really unavoidable. Yes, you’re right! But at anytime anyone will have the freedom to what to choose and what to give up. While there are just someone who always pursue materialistic demand without any retreating, so they’re just forcing themselves into a hopeless situation.
You are your only route planner of your daily life.
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