When you have been used to ups and downs of the sun,fullness and lacking fullness of the moon. We’re used to warmth and coldness of different seasons all over the year and changes in the whole world. But we are not so calm when we are in front of sadness, happiness, isolation and gathering of people. And it’s even more difficult for us to be easy in front of all sorrowful events.
After years of change, I had already made being happy as a habit. I found that my happiness could affect many people. When others ask me why I am so happy. I just say : “let being happy as a habit!”
In the past, I just hated some people to give some good advice because hardly any people could follow those advice. It’s you who will be always sad finally. I was not used to sweet words of friends and their faked intentions. Suddenly I just hated this world so much as I found so many faked faces around me.
It may be because that I have experienced so much or because that I had to adapt myself to follow trend of this world because I was incapable of changing the world. Then I gradually like the enterprise spirit of Siemens — “Please work happily!”. I changed it into “Please live happily!”
Being happy or unhappy, we have to live for 24 hours a day. Why don’t we live each day happily?
Of course, no one can smile in a silly way when you’re confronting with something sad or sorrowful. But you could change your attitude in the shortest period of time. Being sad isn’t the best way to solve a problem. Then I just engrave this saying in mind: “Please live happily!”
I just reminds myself every moment that I should live happily for each day because I just hope to live better like all others. Though we cannot satisfy ourselves in terms of materialism, we should learn to make up vacancies in our hearts.
We can’t learn all knowledge or truth in life. There is always something bad in our life. Life is so hard and don’t always be tough to others, not even tough to yourself.
There is a saying in the book: “it’s your lack of cultivation when you’re not so nice with others.” It’s true that everyone may be different due to their difference in family background and education background. And they will just be differently affected by the society. When you’re not so nice with others, will others not be so nice with you?
So what you need to do is to learn to be kind to everyone around you and learn to always find advantages of others and learn from them. Disadvantages of friends are the best lessons you can learn from. Do you want to make some change if you want to happen to have such disadvantages?
Happiness is not only an inner feeling in your heart. But it means more because when you have the sense of happiness, others can read smile on your face.
If you are careful enough in life, you will know that the most beautiful expression in the world is smile. If you want to own the most beautiful expression in the world, please let being happy be a habit in your life!
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