A capable person may have strong ability in what he’s good at. However, his ability may end in vain if he doesn’t know how to control his own emotion. Anyone who’s strong in his capability but not good at controlling his own emotions may not get a perfect ending.
It will be of not value for a person who’s not good at controlling his own emotions.
The strongest ability is to control yourself
The current modern time is quite different from ancient times in which brave soldiers may win in wars even though he’s not good at controlling his own emotions. However, in modern times, if you let your emotions control your reasonable thoughts, you may not be able to go on with your life.
People who are really excellent will focus on business while set their emotions aside because they will be of no use but may be harmful to the current situation. You can develop your maximum potential to pursue your strongest ability by reasonably controlling your emotions.
Real smart people don’t lose temper at any times.
If you’re right, it’s unnecessary for you to lose temple. If you’re wrong, you’re not qualified to lose temple. This is a true wisdom in life. However, most people haven’t made sense of it.
A legendary figure from Thailand has ever advised that all in your life will go well if you have self-discipline in your life. It’s a life lesson to learn how to be a real person for anyone. Whichever business you’re concentrating on, you can achieve progress as long as you learn in a continuous way.
Confident people never express their emotions
It’s not that capable people don’t have emotions but they are just unwilling to be controlled by emotions. They’re not too angry or too happy by going to the extreme. Their peaceful appearance comes from their inner confidence and power.
“Never tell any body outside the family what you’re thinking again.” is a famous quotation from the film “The Godfather”. Emotions tend to be expressed by those who like to express them on face. It’s their lack of practice in their inner heart rather than frankness.
It’s a sign of being mature when you can endure something if it’s necessary and when you can break out if it’s time to let it out.
You need to learn to control your emotions even it’s hard.
When Lincoln was president. A land force General complained to him about being insulted from a younger General. Lincoln advised the land force General to write a sarcastic letter as a reply.
When the land force general had just written the letter and was going to sent it out. Lincoln asked “what are you doing?”
“I am going to send him the letter.” answered the land force General in a puzzle.
“You’re so stupid! You just burn it out!” Said Lincoln, “I always do so when I am angry because writing a letter is a way of expressing your anger. If you’re not relaxed enough, just write till you’re.”
From this story you’ll realize that your negative emotions need to be expressed out in a proper way, just as Lincoln’s writing letter story as a way of expressing his anger.
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