Once there were two farmers. They wanted to grow their vegetables together because they thought their relationships were good. However, their vegetables later gathered together but withered finally. And they began to complained about each other for occupying too much land of their own land respectively. Later they became strangers gradually.
You even need distance in a good relationship and you need space for yourself even you’re very intimate with each other. Too far a distance will bring coldness in your relationship while too close a distance will also get your relationship hurt.
You need proper distance in your marriage because you’re complemented with each other rater than being bundled with each other.
You need proper distance in your friendship because your friends may not be perfect and you needn’t be so picky to keep a friendship.
You also need proper distance in your kinship because there’s always some frictions in life and you shouldn’t be a caviler.
The friendship between gentlemen is as pure as water，but the friendship between villain appears indifferent. A proper distance, neither too far nor too close, is a proper boundary where you can seize the degree perfectly.
Everyone need space of his own. The outside part can be shared with others while the inner part shall be remained for himself. We all have our own magnetic field, where we will repel each other if getting too close while hard to be attracted with each other while being too far.
It’s a subject to learn how to get along with others. We need to continuously learn how to adjust ourselves to be in the most suitable position. Never refuse to adapt or change yourself because adaptation of change is necessary for you to remain a healthy relationship with people around you. You can’t win success of a relationship in a day. Only in a stable and slow way, can your relationship be developed in a long term.
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