As a woman, efforts are your symbol, confidence is your capital and smile is your signal. You need to strive hard to win a good man who will propose to you with one of his knee on the ground surface rather than making others to see your efforts. You need to love yourself first before being loved by others.
You need to try to step forward by yourself rather than being accompanied by others for a safety feeling. When you are willing to step forward by yourself, you are able to go shopping nearby, watch a movie by yourself, eat a box of ice cream, read a whole book in the library and you can happily walk back your home, enjoying all the time being alone.
If you want to be gently treated by others, you need your own business and your own sky, so that you won’t be so lonely in your old-age life. If you consider marriage as a turning point for a good life, you will destined to be suffering from pain in your remaining life. No one can bear a whole life for you. Marriage is all about finding a soul partner for yourself. Women need their own space most of the time! Your life will be destined to incomplete by depending on others in your life.
You will never know how many versions yourself can be in others’ mouth and you will never know what others had said to ruin you to safeguard themselves and you even can’t stop those unpractical sayings. What you can do is just to be silent and make no explanations. People who understand you will believe in you forever.
The state of being alone is good. You can read as long as you want. You can sleep if you are tired. You can eat anything you like. You can be quiet with yourself if you don’t want to be interrupted by others. You can either stay at home or go out for travelling. You had better keep a little distance from love. Don’t be involved in love so easily and compromise so easily. Something real valuable won’t be gained so easily. So cherish the days you can still be single.
If you are lazy or degenerating now, you will have to dedicate more in the future. So don’t mention that your current life isn’t what you want because that’s it that you’re living. There’s always ups and downs in life. It’s not mainly because you’re unlucky, or you aren’t so beautiful or you don’t have any opportunities, it’s mainly because you have give up your efforts.
As woman you need to remember that what you really should make up is to change your personality by reading more books, thinking more, keeping an optimistic attitude to life, keeping confidence in your life, be kind, caring others, loving yourself and keep your own dignity. Being a woman like this won’t be ugly everywhere she goes even if you don’t make up her face.
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