A news about rewarding smile had been released recently. A young man was rewarded much by his boss for his big smile. And the reward is worth about one year of the young man’s salary. One’s expression on face can really reveal how far he or she goes. Your smile really worth millions and can lead you far to more beautiful life journey.
I had led an intern student 5 years ago when I was still in a job about media works. The girl was excellent in writing, experience and learning. She graduated from journalism in a key university. As there’s no position for new applicants, she just left for Shanghai by herself after an internship of half a year. Many of my colleagues considered it as a pity but I didn’t think so. Because I thought that she could go far as she was able to control her own emotions. I remembered an experience by then when we were together. There was a whole week we worked overtime to finish a special report. Our team just had stayed up late for a week to finish that task. In our celebration dinner, she drank a lot and cried then we knew that she had broke up with her boyfriend who had been with her for seven years. But she didn’t show anything unusual in her expression before. And she could still smile happily in front of the camera. No one can rob off your sunshine as long as you can smile and keep an adorable attitude to your work. And you can finally become King of your work. I met her again by the end of last year in Shanghai. She could earn as much as 500,000 RMB per year at her 29.
American psychologist A.S. Lochins has ever said : “It’s of great importance that we should leave good first impression in interpersonal relationship with others.”
We just first meet our colleagues at the starting time of our work. People will just judge life of yours from expression of yours at work and their judge will affect their emotions and behaviors to your in the next working day. You work so hard. Guests may reject you even you have followed him so long. You may get less than your colleagues when rewards are given.
You may feel that life is unfair but you may forget that 90% of things happen on you depends on your reactions to them.
Did you forget that you were still complaining when your guests come to your company to communicate with you. Such an angry you make them hard to communicate with.
You were always sad whenever your boss met you and your eyes were full of complaints. He just couldn’t understand why work made you so unhappy.
You just nodded when your colleagues made greetings to you. But you still were frowning. When they found their hospitality met your coldness, their passion to be close to you will be removed.
Your guests don’t know that the cost of the house you determine to buy is rising. Your boss don’t understand that you’re unhappy because of a mistake made by your son. And your colleagues will not realize that you’re depressed because of forgetting your birthday of your boyfriend.
Of course they don’t have to know all about you. Your boss gives you salary. Your colleagues cooperate with you. They don’t necessarily live under expression on your face and don’t have the responsibility to pay the bill for all your troubles in your life.
All emotions in life you bring to work will finally gulp your life in return. All you need to do is to manage your emotions well and bring a refreshing yourself to your work.
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