To be a good listener, boys like the girls who listen to them attentively. Learn to talk about his favorite topics but not just the topics you are interested in. It would be great if you talk about the topic both are interested in.
You win some and lose some, that’s not a question you can’t make sense. The blocks from people and circumstances surrounding will be nothing as long as you think what you win is more important than what you lose. Parents, children and jobs are not excuses. People have the right to pursue happiness. The real blocks are the inflated desires and fantasies in your heart. The dream can’t perfectly coincide with reality. Just go after it if you think you can take it.To be honest, life is yours, you can live in a way you choose no matter bad or good it is.