The most important with you are with a woman is trying your best to let her have interest in you. But the fact is that many men go through life having no understanding of how to attract women properly. For this reason, they have a hard time getting dates, connecting with girls, or establishing meaningful connections. They might assume that they need to make their stories more impressive, be more humorous, etc. But these beliefs them to ramble on, trying appealing but failing and driving women away instead of attracting them.
So what not to do when you date with a woman? Please follow the tips as following and you will understand:
Feeling like you don't Deserve them: When you are intimidated by a beautiful girl, and feel deep down as though you don’t deserve to be talking with them, they can sense this. Whatever you do, you have to get rid of this attitude and become more confident. You may think as though it’s all about looks, and if you don’t have a certain look, you’re doomed. However, it's only partially about looks, and more about your attitude and vibe.
Talking Too Much And Not Listening Enough: If there is one thing that turns women off more than anything else, it is not listening enough to what women are saying. And most men end up talking way too much when they interact with women.
Here’s the truth: Talking more does NOT help you create or build attraction. It only helps you KILL attraction.
Not understanding this one simple fact is what causes many men to get rejected, humiliated, and stay lonely.
The key into a girl’s pants is to get her to do most of the talking and to get her sharing her emotions with you. It’s only when a woman shares things with you, that she’s feels a connection and a powerful bond between the 2 of you is building.
By focusing on listening more and talking less you also prevent yourself from the possibility of saying the wrong thing that could turn women off.
A guy who knows how to listen to women is rare, because he only speaks when he has something interesting to say, and because of that he commands respect and attention.
Talking About Boring Things That Do NOT Interest Women: Most men after approaching a girl will begin to talk about boring topics. Things that most girls would not find interesting.
What do most men talk about after they approach a woman?
The weather, where a girl works, the grass, what a girl is wearing, etc.
All boring topics that do nothing to capture a girls interest or to keep a girls attention. In fact, talking about these same old lame boring things is the reason why so many men fail when they try approaching women.
You’ve got to look at it from the woman’s point of view.
Here she is, just now got off of work and this guy who she knows nothing about is asking her all of these weird and boring questions about her job.
A girl who has just now gotten off of work does not want to spend the rest of her evening talking about work. That to her is boring and uninteresting.
By learning about the biggest and most common mistakes that most men make with women, you can save yourself both time and frustration.
So make sure NOT to make these silly mistakes that most men make the next time you talk to that cute girl and by you doing so, you will enable yourself to find much more success.
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