One unfortunate or negative results of trying to date, as a man, is the fear of coming off as creepy. This holds a lot of great and intelligent men back from feeling natural or confident around women they find attractive. Most men are aware of the fact that women can be more selective than guys, in most cases, with their sexual or dating partners. This increases the pressure of trying to stand out in a good way, but not come off as desperate or pathetic at the same time. This is one of the reasons why many men simply choose to avoid women. Better to prevent the devastating rejection than to accept that you are simply undateable, right? Finding a middle ground is hard. This can be quite a delicate balance to strike. So, how do you do this?
Getting Caught up on Fears: For men who are especially introverted or creative, getting caught up on all possible, this can be a painful situation. You have the ability to see, in vivid detail, all the worst possibilities that could occur after trying to approach that pretty girl. But getting overly worked up while thinking about any mistake you might make can lead you to get lost in a fictitious world, based on fear. It’s hard to accept that these fantasies are not based in reality, whatsoever, but more often than not, they aren’t. In real life, not being a creep is nowhere near as hard as it seems.
Acting “Creepy” and Turning her off: What makes a guy creepy?
Sometimes, even the nicest of guys can turn out to be creepy guys. But what’s the easiest way to define a creepy guy? Well, a creepy guy is anyone who shows interest in a girl when the girl doesn’t fancy him back at all.
Before launching into this, let’s cover the behaviors you want to avoid at all cost. In other words, being creepy in dating situations with women. This kind of behavior applies to any situation where you are acting, saying, or even thinking in ways that make her feel threatened or simply uncomfortable around you. This is the opposite of what attraction feels like, since you ire testing her boundaries. Here are some examples of that kind of behavior:
1. Jumping into discussing sex when it’s unwanted.
2. Being the touchy feely guy.
3. Being the personal space creepy guy.
4. Showing her inappropriate pictures or telling inappropriate jokes.
5. Ignoring physical boundaries by grabbing her arm or backing her against a wall as you are talking to her.
6. Being the creepy stalker guy.
7. Being the staring creepy guy.
These are definitely not the only ways to be creepy, just a few examples. Keep in mind that women have to deal with men like this many times throughout life, and hinting that you’re one of them is the quickest, surest way to get her to put you out of her mind forever as a potential date or future boyfriend.
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