One huge mistake that men make while attempting to keep her intrigued during a date is trying way too hard to seem impressive. This only makes them come across as awkward, self-doubting and nervous. If you’re already on a date with her, she's interested so show that you are interested, care for her, and like being around her.
What she Wants on the Date: Being too over the top with these expressions can lead to the sending the message that you think she’s above you or out of your league. Women like guys who believe in themselves, can relax, and show their natural personality.
Then they will open up to kissing, going home with you, and possibly even falling for and starting a relationship with you.
What she doesn’t Want: If you are unable to fulfill the steps above, women will likely quickly lose interest, give up on hopes of a second date, and possibly even deliver the dreaded line that she only wants to be your friend. Other women may say at the end of the date that they had fun but are not ready to have a relationship at the moment.
You want to treat her nice, dress well to impress her, and take her out o somewhere you’ll both enjoy, but you also need to make it clear that you respect yourself and that it isn’t all about impressing her. No matter what you’re wearing or where you guys go, her maintaining interest depends on you showing that you know you’re good enough. Guys who are always trying to hit on women and having no success, or possibly even scoring first dates but never second, are the ones who are always trying far too hard to seem likeable. This simply puts off a vibe of desperation, and who is attracted to that?
Here are some mistakes guys usually make when they try to maintain her interest. They might buy her whatever she wants, try to take her to the most incredible places, and tell the greatest, most impressive stories. None of this is inherently wrong. But women like men who can take the lead, instead of constantly attempt to fish for her affection and attention. Going overboard definitely comes across as trying to do this, and it naturally repels women. Your natural, genuine masculinity and personality are more than enough to attract her and keep her interested and wanting more. Let her feel calm and relaxed around you by taking the lead and showing how relaxed and calm you are.
So how to maintain interest in a relationship? Now, holding a woman’s interest in you when you are first dating is a bit different than holding interest when you guys are actually an item or have made things official between the two of you. The latter regies on deepening her attraction, respected, and love feelings over the course of time. The beginning of any relationship is the simplest and easiest part, because lust does a lot of work, along with the spark and excitement of a new partner.
Don’t rely on Lust alone: If you guys are already sleeping together, this is typically enough pleasure and enjoyment to keep you wanting to meet again and again and take things to the next level, or get serious with each other. But once this stage starts fading, there’s more work to do to keep things going. These are not only tips for maintaining her interest in your relationship but also for improving yourself as a man and being happier in general. You can, for example, reach for your personal ambitions, find your life’s purpose, be respectable, strong emotionally, and always fulfill your word. When you express your masculinity, you’re allowing her to feel feminine around you in the ways you take action, move, behave, feel, and think in comparison with her. All men enjoy feeling masculine, and all women enjoy feeling feminine; and this is why they are attracted to each other, as we mentioned and covered in the first chapter of this book.
Why not try these when you date with her next time? Try to keep your relationship fresh.
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