Once you have established that a woman is, in fact, interested in being with you, you have to establish the right attitude to keep her into dating you and having a relationship with you. This is the fundamental, correct way to approach a woman to ensure that she stays interested.
First Meeting a Woman: The way you act when you first meet someone is different than how you would act after knowing them for a while. What you should focus on when you are very first meeting a girl you’re interested in is triggering her emotions of attraction toward you and keeping them alive. If a man, for example, approaches a woman and starts to talk to her, while showing signs of self-doubt or nervousness, or trying to seem nicer than he actually genuinely is, the woman won’t feel attracted to him, n most cases. In fact, she will probably be overwhelmingly turned off and repelled by his inauthentic front and weakness emotionally.
Varying Levels of Interest she might Show you: However, if a male goes up to her and shows that he is confident in himself, easy going, relaxed, and talking as though he is self-assured, showing his authentic charisma but being authentic, her feelings of attraction will likely be activated. This is of course true if she is interested in men and not already married or dating someone else. But if a girl likes you, this doesn’t always mean she will behave or respond in a way that makes this clear.
Obvious Interest: At times, you talk to a woman and you notice sparks flying, leading to her getting closer to you. If this happens, don't hesitate to kiss her, ask for her number, or even bring her back to your place.
Hidden or Stalled Interest: Other times, though, a woman can seem less certain and it may even take a couple of hours for her to show these signs of interest in you. A third category, to make things a bit more complicated is the women who will play hard to get and appear cold or uninterested, even when they really are.
Uncertain Interest: A woman who, for example, is only interested in getting with someone with high confidence levels, might test him out by pretending to be uninterested or even teasing him. They do this because they want to see if he will stay self-assured regardless of the challenges she throws at him. In order to keep her interested, when this happens, you have to ensure that you stand your ground, instead of buckling under the pressure she is giving you. Stay confident, calm, and keep displaying the qualities, behaviors, and traits that all women cannot resist, like humor, charisma, and confidence.
No Interest: There’s also the obvious category that you never want to fall into, which is the category of obvious disinterest in you. When this happens, just obey the signals she’s sending. A little bit of persistence (as mentioned in the previous point) may be appreciated, but going too far is not going to help your case at all. Unless you’re interested in becoming her friend, move on when you notice she’s not having your charms. The movies may glamorous pressuring her into liking you, but in reality, this will rarely work out to your benefit.
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