This is a big one! You didn’t sign up to be his shrink, caretaker or Mom. Relationships are tough enough to handle, do you really want to date a depressed and negative soul? Do you want to be constantly trying to build up a man who always feels sorry for himself, feels he is the victim, and is an attention-seeker who will always need something from you but who will rarely reciprocate?
You may feel sorry for him, but I call this man an asshole! Most of these men know exactly what they are doing and they prey on women who feel sorry for them. Say boohoo to this man and dump his ass.
It’s different if you’re in a long, committed relationship and something happens along the way to bring him down - I get it. Taking on a man who has lost his way, simply because he is attractive and you think you can fix him is ridiculous! Going down that road is going dow the Highway to Hell and you do not want to turn off there!
Instead, these basics tell you to date an upbeat, positive man. A man who thinks the glass is half full is a much better choice. He will lead you to a life of happiness instead of bringing you into his life of misery. This type of guy will also be able to pull himself up by his bootstraps when life does throw him, or you, a curve ball.
Save your nurturing instincts for kids. With the right man, not a depressed man. What does Miss Intuition say? Yes. She says he is an asshole - dump his ass.
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