Your online dating profile is like a resume for a job interview. It has to be strong, precise and describe you in the best light. You don't need to use too many words, but make sure you pick the right ones. Also, it will be good to show it to a friend you trust or someone who means well. They will tell you what is off putting and where you can correct your thoughts to express yourself better.
If humor is your best trait, use it to your advantage. If you have a unique hobby or an interest you think people will And entertaining, list that too. The trick is in finding the golden middle. You don’t want to be all high and mighty and overly enthusiastic, because people might not take you seriously. But you also shouldn’t bore people by writing 500 words describing your job, your ideals or background. Leave something to their imagination. After all, if you let every-one know everything about you through your profile, what would you talk about when you meet in person?
And of course, be careful before you create the account. Read the privacy policy and the terms of use. Often online services use the fine print for the hidden details about the subscriptions, so you might end up paying for services every month without knowing. Read carefully to determine which components of your personal data the site requires for opening your account. And never use an email you use at work. Not just for the spam emails, but also because your boss might read your private messages.
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