Obviously, human beings have many kissable places beyond the lips and mouth. While we won't take the full tour in this short chapter (or in this book), for most people this sort of exploration is a natural part of the same overall experience, and at least a few of those places deserve some mention here. For this discussion we'll confine ourselves to the area around the head (with a small detour to the hands), and provide a few ideas you may want to try out when you reach these kissing sweet spots.
The Forehead, Cheeks arid Nose
The forehead, the cheeks and the nose can be described as two relatively flat, featureless expanses of flesh, and one pointy protrusion in the middle of the face angling for attention, even as we're far more interested in the mouth that's shaded below it. In erotic kissing terms, these spots aren't usually considered starring attractions, yet they shouldn’t be ignored or left out because, given a chance, they can add variety, sensuality and even emotional depth to the kissing experience.
The Forehead
There's something reassuring about a kiss to the forehead. To kiss their partner here, a person must position themselves slightly above the other person, in a protective position, as if to say "It's okay, I'm watching over you." This can be a warm, nurturing kiss filled with affectionate associations. Think back：Some of the first kisses we ever received were to the forehead, intended to comfort us (when we were sick, for instance). It's that emotional resonance combined with the pleasure of physical contact that can make a kiss here so satisfying.
The Cheek
There's a long tradition of kissing someone's cheek as a sign of friendship. In our country, women friends and friends of the opposite sex do this freely, but if a heterosexual male kisses another man's cheek it's usually a sign that he was born outside the U.S.
The tradition of the cheek as a safe, affectionate place to kiss carries over into dating. For many couples, the cheek is the site of a first, demure kiss, especially when the female's lips aren't offered. But courteous kissing doesn't mean the cheeks don't have a more sensual side. The forehead and nose are bony areas covered with a thin layer of skin, but the cheeks offer a softer, fleshier surface to play with. This makes cheeks ideal for nuzzling and cuddling, resting on a partner, or brushing against them flesh-to- flesh. The cheeks have another advantage:Their close proximity to the lips mean that after you have rested your cheek against your partner, it takes only a slight roll of the head to bring your lips into contact with your partner's lips.
As a surface for kissing, short and long licks work well on the cheek, as do kisses where the inner part of the lips come into play while sliding back and forth over your partner's skin. Though the cheek is flattish. at the top is the little ridge of the cheekbone where you can use your lips (avoid using teeth here) to nip and play with this fleshy gathering of skin.
The Nose
The nose has a slighttly goofy appeal. It sticks out rather inelegantly from the middle of the face, between the dazzling gaze of our partner's eyes and the ripe allure of their lips. At fint, this fleshy speed bump may not seem to have much potential as a focal point for our romantic yearnings, but that misleading impression is part of its humble charm —few areas of the body seem so equally designed to amuse and arouse.
The Neck
Consider this, in mankind's long, fevered history countless dark creatures of the night have bubbled up from our collective unconscious to haunt our dreams, but only a monster this sort has ever been described as having devastating sex appeal for women.Suave enough, in fact, to be played in the movies by the likes of Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt and Robert Pattinson, this fang-toothed Lothario is famous for only one big move — spending all his “getting to know you"time at a woman's neck. Of course, outside the realm of fiction a vampire-style bite is way too extreme and not at all recommended, but for most women a gentler nibble in the neck region is more than fine. It may be, as some evidence suggests, that some men aren 't as sensitive in this area of the body as most women are, and so have trouble appreciating how pleasurable a kiss there can be for their partner. If you're a man and that's true of you, it’s worth remembering that, for the woman in your life, the neck may be one of her very favorite places to be kissed. As a visual treat, most men quite naturally find tile graceful curve of a woman's neck sexy anyway, so give into that feeling and come back to your partner's neck again and again.
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