Reminiscing about the happy times may have a potent influence on your relationship well being.The retelling of a funny shared life event, or in other words, of the happy times you spent together, can often be as enjoyable as experiencing those happy times again, given that the memory is likely to evoke laughter just as did the incident.
One of the things you can do to rekindle your love and affection for your partner is to take a trip down memory lane. You have to remember how it felt when you started the relationship. Do you still remember the butterflies in your stomach? Remember how good your partner made you feel? Remember how your partner stood beside you through the good times and the bad?
To fall in love with your partner again, you need to spend five to ten minutes of your day thinking about the happy times. It maybe that trip to Europe or other funny moments you shared. It may be the moment when your spouse made you laugh after a long and stressful day at work. It may be the moment when your partner took you to the most expensive restaurants or the moment when your partner taught you how to drive or play golf. Do this as often as you can. Whenever you feel that you're bored in your relationship or you become frustrated with your partner, think about those happy times. Think about the times when you were still dating and you used ro watch a lot of movies together and go out every Friday night. Think about the times when you went on a skiing or diving trip. Think about the times when you were still in the "honeymoon" stage, when it seemed you couldn't get enough of each other. Remember the times when you had so much fun together and the times when you gazed into each other's eyes a lot. Take time to look at old photographs or old videos and remember how those times felt. Doing this will instantly increase your fondness for your partner. It will help you focus mroe on the good times than the bad.
When couples savor events that have previously created mirth and shared laughter via collaboratively reminiscing, they are opt to make make meaningful contributions to the balance of positive and negative outcomes in a relationship that ultimately will affect your relationship stability and longevity.Take time to open up and talk about a funny incident or a happy trip. You will surely have a few laughs together and you'll instantly feel more connected with each other.
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