Make an effort to understand what he really likes and why. Is it sports? Hang gliding? Cooking? Does he love the mountains? Can he build things out of wood? Is he into German Shepherds? Ask him to teach you his hobbies and research these passions on your own. Many women go through their relationships without this key ingredient...the intertwining of hobbies with their significant other.
You might actually enjoy what he does. Just because he makes furniture and you know nothing about it doesn’t mean you wouldn’t love to do it. Try it. Think of what you could gain: more time spent with the man you crave and a new hobby to enlighten your life. What could be better?
Not only will you see results, but he will be impressed to see you care. This is a huge trait which men place into the she could be a keeper bin - a woman who actually wants to participate in something he is totally passionate about. Wow!
You may say, “Why do I need to participate in his activities? He should want to participate in mine too and he doesn’t.”
Be the big grown-up here. A guy has his macho stupid image to keep so cut him some slack with your yoga class. Be the first to cross over and ask him a few questions about the difference between a safety and an extra point. He will get excited.
Do you get to the point? I don’t mean to be sexiest. You just need to make the first move. If you think like a guy, I bet you can even get him to go clothes shopping with you! Just make it a challenge and give him a reward, just like a dog, and he will go! He will certainly reciprocate you!
As a bonus, you may find him asking about, and wanting to participate in, your interests. Look for this, but don’t demand it. If he does, then guess what? You just find yourself a keeper!
Just like the story a friend shared. Once a month she visited all the different streams and tributaries in her area and recorded various plant and animal life. What did he do? Without being asked, he went with her and met some new friends and eventually got very active alongside his girlfriend. You see, men are cute sometimes. They really know they need to reciprocate you if you're also into them!
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