Do you want to be his shelf prize? Make an effort to understand his hobbies and interests. What he really likes and why? Is it sports? Hang gliding? Cooking? Does he love the mountains? Can he build things out of wood? Is he into German Shepherds? Ask him to teach you his hobbies and research these passions on your own. Many women go through their relationships without this key ingredient...the intertwining of hobbies with their significant other.
Don’t just go shopping when he is working on his Ford Mustang - take interest and help him!
You might actually enjoy what he does. Just because he makes furniture and you know nothing about it doesn’t mean you wouldn’t love to do it. Try it. Think of what you could gain: more time spent with the man you crave and a new hobby to enlighten your life. What could be better?
Not only will you see results, but he will be impressed to see you care. This is a huge trait which men place into the she could be a keeper bin - a woman who actually wants to participate in something he is totally passionate about. Wow!
You may say, “why do I need to participate in his activities? He should want to participate in mine too and he doesn’t.”
Be the big grown-up here. A guy has his macho stupid image to keep so cut him some slack with your yoga class. Be the first to cross over and ask him a few questions about the difference between a safety and an extra point. He will get excited.
My girlfriend was so cute. She had an idea how football was played, but she made the chili and got involved with my bonehead friends who came over and left the toilet seat up. I took her under my wing and one day with my cat laser toy. I taught her the game. She loved it.
From then on, we enjoyed it together, and guess what? When we watch football together, without my bonehead friends, she gets the toilet seat down!
You get my point. I don’t mean to be sexiest. I just want you to make the first move. If you think like a guy, I bet you can even get him to go clothes shopping with you! Just make it a challenge and give him a reward, just like a dog, and he will go!
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