With jobs, children, responsibilities, and other distractions it is easy for your relationship to take a back seat compared to everything else. If you find that your marriage or relationship is becoming dull, think back to what caused you to fall in love with your partner. Think about what made you notice them to begin with and how the two of you became a couple. Having happy memories about the birth of your relationship can get you recalling other important events as well. Think about your first holidays together or meeting each other's parents for the first time. Can you remember where you were where your partner told you that they loved you for the first time? If you are married, do you remember exactly where you were when your partner proposed? Can you remember how you felt on your wedding day? If you find yourself feeling warm, happy, and overwhelmed with emotion at these memories, that’s a good thing. That means that the love you felt for your partner is still there, you have to find a way to let it out and show your partner how they make you feel.
This is the perfect opportunity to share your feelings with your spouse or partner. It could be as simple as reminiscing before you go to bed at night or talking about the best parts of your relationship over dinner. It can get you both talking and feeling nostalgic about a fantastic part of your life. Maybe at the beginning of your relationship, you would go for walks late at night or frequent a coffee shop that had fantastic drinks. Why don’t you go anymore? By remembering all the fun things you used to do together, it could encourage you to revisit the places where you fell in love or find even better places now that your relationship has matured.
You can spend time with your spouse while you recall these great memories. Crack open the photo albums and tell each other stories from those important days. Got any home movies? If you are married, did someone record the event? Sit down and watch it together. Make it a special event. If you are able to see the way you looked and felt when you first fell in love, it can make you take a step back and think about what changed. You still love your partner or spouse, and they still care for you too and despite all the other things that have entered your life you can feel that way again. Knowing that your spouse or partner was capable of making you feel love and passion should bring you comfort It is possible for the two of you to feel that way again.
Looking back at how you and your partner met and fell love will make you rernember all the qualities that made your significant other stand out to you. You will want to recreate those moments that made your heart race or filled you with passion. You and your partner will want to create future love filled memories that you will cherish later in your life.
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