To make a man stay commited to you, you have to spend time to examine what men require. Keep im mind that men are simple creatures and you can easily understand this stuff. Everytime you get up in the morning when you're in a relationship, keep the following requirements in mind and make sure they are magical and simple:
1) Make him feel special;
2) Let him have control;
3) Stand by his side.
Make him feel special
It's quite imperative for men to feel special in the eyes of their women. Due to masculine characteristics and the strong influence of hormone, a man needs to feel he's the only one she could be with. This means that even if he is not, you should make it clear that he is. Competition is one of your main keys to success. Please use it to your advantage and make it clear that he is the only man you could be with. You should make him feel worthy and make him feel that he has beaten all other men and you always proudly display it.
This will just make the men running in the ball playing ground and screamed :"I win, I win, I win." Your aim is to lock him dow, make him want to keep winning. But please don't worship him. You just let him know that he is now doing well.
If you insult him in front of other people or you have a close male friend you share private stuff with, you will damage your relationship. Behaving in this way may arouse his jealousy a little bit but this is not what you should be going for. It's all about self-worth. If you make him feel like that he has conquered other men, he will fight to keep it going. He will feel as if he is defending his castle with a moat and alligators. Putting this requirement into action will make you a content woman.
Let him have control
You may be making more money than he does.And you even don't need him to buy dinner for you every time. Allow him to do so if he wants to. Or maybe you like making many things by yourself around the house, let him do what he chooses. If he is built for manual labor, let him do manual labor. Just let him fix things or try to fix them even if he breaks more stuff than he fixes.Let him open the door for you if he wants to though he knows you can open your own door. Even though you may want to choose dinner by yourself, you should try to give him the power of making a decision that caters to you.
Always stand by him
You must stand by him even when he is wrong. Even if your family and friends say anything otherwise, you must always stand by him. Doing this is really hard. However, if you break this pact, he will leave you. If you're dating a quality man, then he won't run over a dog. And you need try your best to stand by him.
Standing by him is also about being loyal. The worst thing you can ever do is to have an affair. In a relationship if a woman had an affair first, most men will never recover. Because this is the ultimate insult to a man who is in love and this actually kills his self-worth.
If a man really loves you, he needs to know you are always standing by him when he need you, and you are always there if he comes home.
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