You'll notice that each date is rated on a scale of one to five on five different parameters (physical intimacy potential, emotional intimacy potential, conversational ease, cost effective, and brag-worthiness). Different relationships generally require different ratings in regards to these parameters. For example, if you are going on a first date with someone, I recommend choosing dates that rate highly on conversational ease and emotional intimacy potential. If you are already in a long-term relationship then I would suggest prioritizing brag-worthiness and physical intimacy potential. The rest is up to you.
Physical Intimacy Potential
This parameter is all about the likelihood that physical touch will occur within the date's structure. The traditional “dinner date” would score an emphatic ZERO if it were being rated because two people sitting across from each other at a restaurant have very little chance for physical contact. Contrast that with dates like partnered salsa lessons or a home-spa date where you massage each other, and you’ll see why this parameter is so necessary to consider.
It bears repeating-dates that score highly on physical intimacy potential are generally better left to the long term relationships. A five out of five for physical intimacy potential is a date too presumptuous for most first dates.
Emotional Intimacy Potential
Emotional intimacy potential speaks to the likelibood that you and your date will farm or deepen your emtional connection with each other. Many of the activities of dates and romantic date structures score highly on this parameter.
Conversational Ease
For those of you who don't want to do all of the heavy lifting conversationally, this parameter will let you know if a date does most of the talking for you. Going for a hike, doing karaoke, or seeing a live comedy show are all dates that would score highly on conversational ease.
Conversely, if you are totally confident in your ability to lead and maintain quality conversations with your date, then you might want to intentionally choose dates that score lower on this scale. A few of the dates (like playing pool or people watching) are intentionally included in the book so that you can really let your personality shine through.
Cost Effective
Cost effectiveness speaks to how inexpensive the date is to pull off. Again, every date included in this book is intentionally inexpensive, but for those who are extra budget conscious/this parameter points you in the direction of which dates are lower-cost to zero-cost.
Brag-Worthiness
And finally, brag worthiness. This parameter basically measures the likelihood that your date will brag about this to her friends and family afterward.
Was it awe-inspiring, epic, and romantic? Then that date would rate a five out of five.
And now that you know the foundation for what makes a date powerful, let’t get right into the fifty dates!
Those five date decode as above shall be referred as parameters for you to set you dating goal. Think about them and refer to them wisely if you establish a long-term intimate relationship.
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