Why are women instinctively (yes, instinctively) attracted to guys who have zero neediness? Why are they instinctively attracted to men who have options? Who feel like they don't need to prove anything?
We’ll explore the evolutionary reasons and finds that women find men with zero neediness are irresistible because its all about the sub-communication.
Mindset is everything. It’s not so much about the needy behavior itself, but about where it is that the behavior comes from. It’s about what your behavior implies you as a man—the sub-communication.
For example, buying a woman you barely know a drink at a bar of bragging to her about your job is obviously coming from a place of perceived inadequacy. You feel you’re not good enough for her on your own, or you feel inferior to her or intimidated by her beauty, and so you attempt to compensate.
Meanwhile, the guy who’s playfully teasing a woman about something or another is, though his actions, implying the exact opposite. He has zero neediness. In fact, he might be “teasting” her to see if she’s good enough for him. He’s the catch, and she’s just another chick chasing after him (at least this is his mindset).
Needless to say, the second guy is going to be seen as infinitely more attractive to women than the first guy because his behavior implies that he is higher status.
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