How do you focus on yourself so that the Law of Attraction can bring you the person you love? To achieve this goal, you may list a lot of suggestions. But hereby, two of the most frequently effective measures are suggested. With positivity, you'll always be in a good state. And more importantly, to find love you shall love without fear of getting hurt first.
Focus on the positive
Let go of all your negative thoughts...such as "it's hard to find anyone", "why don't they see how good I am", and "no one will ever love me." You have a lot of great qualities that make you so worthy of another's love and attention. Others do notice and appreciate you. There is love all around you. When you love in and focus on the positive, you change your vibration and open a door to let in the person you want.
Find passion. What do you do to make you happy? Do you enjoy gardening, working with wood, or reading mystery stories and finding out the murderer before the author tells you? Find something that ignites a fire within. Find something that inspires you to be your best. Find something that makes you want to do more and be more.
Reward yourself for your efforts. Have you accomplished something that you never thought you would be able to do? Tell yourself, "thank you".And give yourself a treat - a soak in a long hot bath, a special dessert, a few quiet moments away from it all. Go ahead! You deserve it!
Love without fear of getting hurt
For many of us, the leanest thing about love is opening ourselves up to it. When you open yourself to loving someone, there's a chance you might get hurt - you might be rejected, lose your love, feel embarassed...you name it. There may even be a little voice in the back of your head telling you everything that could go wrong, so why even start?
Many people have experienced hurt from losing someone they loved, and may still feel the pain today. This kind of pain and your fear of it happening again can prevent you from opening yourself up to love again. The key is to remember that everything happens for a reason. This pain occurred to help you to grow and become the person you need to be in order to have the relationship you want. If you're afraid of getting hurt, you might unconsciously be preventing someone from getting as close to you as you want. Be willing to take the risk and fully open yourself to love. Only when you do so will you find the love you want.
To help you open up to lover, make a list of the reasons why you're afraid of entering into a loving relationship. Then make another list of how you would feel to be in a lasting and loving relationship. You just compare and decide which list do you like? Which list do you want to have in your life and which list brings you closer to what you desire?
Certainly you'll choose the list of feelings you're in a lasting and loving relaitonship.Those who want to gain shall pay first and just choose to love without the fear of getting hurt.
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