Due to the gender differences resulted from inherent physical structure difference between men and women or exerted by the society, men are generally expected to be strong, stoic and fearless and this is just symbol of masculine energy while women are often suppressed to be levelheanded rational and calm.
Societal suppression to women
If your partner is told to "stop being so sensitive", to "be relaxing" or "calm down" by you, you certainly realize that she isn't in a good state.To exchange a perspective, you just think about how you would feel if you were told to "stop being a baby", you certainly wouldn't feel good, will you?
The result of this kind of societal suppression is that women are always told to bite their tongues and they are learning to numb themselves emotionally. Therefore, they just growp up by doubting their emotional intuition.They hold back from true feelings towards their partner because they feel their partners will be overly critical.
Women may feel as if that the real inner feeling and some uncensored moments in their inner heart may be in some way wrong. Thus, they may always doubt themselves and this will cause suffer for them, both physically and emotionally. Meanwhile, by reflection force of the suffering from the women, their men may also suffer through their darker days.
Men should realize that your woman's greatest gift is the endless depth tuition that she has in her power to help you to develop your maximum potential. By learning how to help your woman you are also help yourself as when she becomes her truest self she will definitely benefit you more.
Why Women Closes Themselves
A women may close herself when she has had a rough work day, or when she finds herself less attractive or when she feels unappreciated or for many other reasons. But all these reasons may he owed to the fact that she feels not being loved. She closes because she wants to see if you will and care enough to open her up again.
When your woman seems emotionally closed off to you and she looks as she is suffering, you shall show you masculine energy to encourage her patiently and lovingly to open up to you. She can come to herself with love and contentment under the influence of your masculine energy. This is just like you want your partner to spice you up when you're in a low mood, you can do the same for her.
Woman usually cares much for emotional intimacy in a relationship and her greatest gift is that she has the power to help you to be the best of yourself and vice versa, you to her. Therefore, it is of great significance for you to continuously open your woman emotionally.You will win mutual benefits and thus your relationship will help you both to fully develop your potential.
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