Sexual passive behavior men have with women nowadays, has a lot to do with their time before. Or sometimes because of religious beliefs, such as you should only have sex after marriage.
Some of these ideas are hard to remove. So here are a few tips:
1. Analyze Your Past
I realized the times I was more sexual with women in nightclubs. This includes with eye contact but also physically. I always got far more women showing sexual interest and nearly always got what I wanted.
I then started applying the same attitude into my daily life and my results drastically changed with women.
So do you remember a time where you were more sexually aggressive? Did you get what you wanted with women? What did you do? Did you have a more sexual eye contact? Did you grabbed a girl you liked and simply kissed her?
This will help you remember the feelings you once had. In way to bring them back to the present moment. I know some guys may not have ever experience this. But if you have then this will be helpful.
2. Women Want Sex
Just because society makes women seem more passive than men. That doesn't mean they don't like sex. You probably already heard the phrase, “Be a lady in public and a whore in the bedroom”.
A lot of women live by this mentality. They don't want to be seen has sluts by their peers, or too easy to get by men. So they play a more passive game, they show the sexual cues, may touch your arm, etc. And then hope that you get the sign and do something about it.
But you really have to do something about it. Otherwise, most commonly if you wait for women then you can sit waiting and wishing. After all, you are the man so act as one.
It is always better to fuck up a situation with a girl by being a bit too sexual. Rather than too passive. Because at least if you are sexual then you will always get more women than otherwise.
3. Accept Your Sexuality And Be Brutally Honest
Just accept the fact that you are a sexual being. That there is nothing wrong with thinking about sex and wanting it. That there is nothing wrong about showing your interests to women.
I know for a lot of men this idea makes them feel confused and even somewhat uncomfortable. They think by this I mean being a rapist or a pervert with women, or something along these lines.
But that is not true! I am not telling you to be all over a woman, or seeing a girl and immediately grabbing her ass.
No, there is a way to smoothly escalate with women physically. As I will later explain in more detail.
The real problem is being too passive with women. That is what fucks your odds with them more than anything else.
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