Sex is more than physical; it does unite us emotionally and spiritually, too. And women are far more emotionally tuned into sex than they are visually tuned into sex. They really do approach sex differently than the way most men do. If you have a close relationship, usually the libido still falls into place.
Nevertheless, there are some things that you can do to help. Both spouses owe it to each other to work on their appearance. If your body belongs to your wife, and hers to you, then you should be keeping it in good shape. So watch what you eat, and get out and get moving, even if it's only taking a walk after dinner. Packing an extra forty pounds is one thing; packing an extra 120 is another. You can still have a good sex life, but the loving thing to do, for both of you, is to treat your body well.
Also, present your body nicely to your wife. You may enjoy her wearing lingerie; the biggest turn on she may have is soap. Or toothpaste. So make it a habit of jumping in the shower after a long day at work, or brushing your teeth well before bed.
And finally, like I said to the women, what really makes a man a good lover is how he treats his wife in bed, not what his ab muscles look like. It doesn't matter what your body is like; you can still make her feel wonderful. So set that as your goal! If you're on the heavier side, make sure that you hold your weight on your forearms if you’re on top, or that you encourage her to be on top- And when you do make love, use lots of foreplay and get to know her body really well. Show her affection, and take time giving her pleasure. That's what will boost her libido!
Great Sex Challenge:
Ladies, share with your husband what you find sexy about him. Earlier this month you had to name five things you loved about your own body; now name 5 sexy things about your hubby. They don't all need to be physical, but come up with five things-and some should be physical! Share them your hubby, and then explore his body and make him believe it.
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