There are all different kinds of things that you can say to your partner, some more tame than others, referred as softcore and hardcore dirty talk. Softcore dirty talk less vulgar, and more general, while hardcore is more explicit.The following are some different things that can said to your partner before, during, or after sex.
Getting In The Mood
1. I want you.
Plain, simple, and sweet, this serves to show your partner that you want them, no one else, and it's all you can think of currently. Not only is this a real ego booster, but it's a simple and honest statement of desire, and it is that hones statement that makes it really do the trick.
2- Damn, I've missed you.
This shows your partner how much you care, no matter how long it has been since you were last together. The soft emphasis of the curse word at the beginning helps to drive the point home. It shows that you have missed their touch, their presence, their smile, the way they move, how they feel, everything about them, and how much you want them still. It is an incredibly erotic statement to make, no matter how long you may have been together.
3. You're the sexiest thing I have ever seen.
With statements like this, you serve to confirm that your partner is the only one on your mind at the time, and that you desire them for who they are, and more than that, you genuinely appreciate everything they have to offer. You show your partner that it is them, and only them, that you want, and that they are the most desirable person you can think of at this time.
4.you smell so good.
5. Your hair smells so good.
6. Your scent is amazing.
With this comment you are allying any potential fears, worries, or concerns that they may have that may be preventing them from being fully in the moment, thereby ensuring that they are right there with you, intensifying their pleasure, and as a result, enhancing yours. By making statements like this, you ensure that you are both paying attention to nothing but each other, that there is nothing else on either of your minds, which in turn heightens awareness of the situation you are in, which turns into increased arousal.
7.You amaze me.
This is another form of validation, showing in words just a small amount of how spectacular you think they are. You want to be sure that your partner knows in each and every possible way how much you desire them,and how truly special you think they are. So many people forget this aspect; just because they should know that they are special to you, does not mean in any way, shape, or form, that you should not tell them every chance you get.
8. Wish I could hold you all day long.
Simple, sweet, and succinct, it expresses a desire of more time spent together, wrapped up in each other, basking in each other's arms.
9. I love it when you pull my hair.
Again, by calling specific attention to an action that you really enjoy, you guarantee that action for a repeat performance, giving them confidence that they are doing something right, and ensuring that you get that same feeling again. This action can be hair pulling, or it can be something else, any action at all. The point is to draw their attention to that specific action, and show how much you love it, guaranteeing that the particular action will come up more and more frequently.
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