In initial loveplay, women often prefer gentle and teasing caresses, and may like intercourse to start off with easy, shallow thrusts. She may like to flirt and start making love with clothes still on. She may love it when you tease her body and softly blow in her ear, kiss her neck, and do not immediately head for her breasts or genitals. The pleasure will gradually grow and will be exciting when you take the time to playfully torment her by coming on, then backing off. Teasingly touch nipples and genitals but keep moving to new spots.
However, their husbands are too direct, speedy, or entirely too predictable. Men often have a real skill deficit in the art of touching softly, approaching gently, and keeping a teasing variety in lovemaking. There can be too much pawing and grabbing and going straight for genital arousal.
Slow is the operative word in fantastic sex. Teasing arousal by its very nature takes time but a gradual, unhurried, leisurely pace will be greatly appreciated by your mate. Often she will take longer to reach arousal, and this will allow her that time to enter into the lovemaking fully.
As you follow her lead, your wife depends on you to create the rhythm of your lovemaking. She will not always want it slow and soft. As she becomes aroused the pace can get vigorous and fast. Then you can think of what feels good to you and duplicate it with her. She will want stronger stimulation of the clitoral area and intercourse can be a wilder experience. Genital pleasuring can become the focus and orgasm more the intent.
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