A common mistake most men make is ignoring the power of erotic touching during sex. Contrary to popular belief, a man's ultimate tool is not his penis. It is his entire body that is the tool that attracts women towards him. A man, in order to give his woman, the best pleasure of her life must use his entire body for the purpose. The usage of hands is considered the best in the history of sex. It is not the human penis that is the best womanizer; it is the strong and yet gentle hands of a man. Touching can create magic that no other body part can replicate.
When you touch a woman, she feels the intense and heated up male energy of a man flowing from his loins to her groins. The touching part of any sex life is what makes it worth the wait in the end. Now, arousal by touching need not be performed only in the bed. It can be done in any place that you wish to use as your arousal ground. It is a matter of psychology that women like it when their men like to touch them in public without attracting anyone’s attention to the same. A lot of women are aroused by the mere fact that their man is bold enough to touch her in broad daylight and does not feel shy about it. This very mentality of a man is arousing enough for a woman to fall for him head over heels even more than before.
The art of erotic touching is all about hitting the right spots at the right time. Now, women’s bodies are designed in such a manner that the erotic spots are well hidden in plain sight. Here are some of the best examples of a woman’s tender spots. Behind the ears is situated an area where a woman is highly sensitive. It is known that when their male partner touches them, preferably by biting or fingers, it makes the women go crazy. Try to either caress the area right behind the ears or bite the ear lobe while trying to arouse your woman.
The region right above the breasts and immediately below the neck is another gentle spot to target. Try to take in the scent of your woman before making any advancement. This ceremony of taking in her scent is important because then you as a human male get aroused yourself. This step is vital because the human scent of a woman is known to drive men mad with lust.
Touching should always be gentle and steady. You cannot afford to go rough with touching. The places where you can touch a woman to successfully arouse her to the maximum possible extent do not really vary much from woman to woman. Some women get highly kinky when their male partners touch their thighs. As it has been mentioned in the previous section, thighs are extremely sensitive areas for a lady. If you keep your palms around thighs, and carries them occasionally, it has an amazing effect on the lady. You have little idea how arousing it could be to a woman when their man prefers to caress her thighs when he could have straight gone to put the pole in the hole. It also assures the woman that you are willing to put more efforts into your experience and that you are have a good grasp about the female psychology when it comes to sex.
What I am going to say next may sound a little absurd to you, but trust me, researches and studies have shown that it is psychologically true in most cases. Women like their men expressive, bold and arrogant. It is the primal instinct of a man to be stubborn about his wishes. When a man expresses his wish to touch you in public, it does not count against him. It goes in his favor, as it indicates that the man is self confident enough to even suggest it. Women get their arousal simply from the suggestion itself. Getting touched in public is such a taboo that it makes the women want to have the forbidden fruit. The fact that the man, in front of the entire world, wants to grope you and still stay inconspicuous about it is a good catalyst to a woman's sex drive. It drives them crazy that their man is ready to accept her in front of the general public. It is something the women associate with true love and deep passion - two such elements that have the tendency to take a relationship to better milestones.
Lastly, touching as an act of sexual conduct is a proved way to gain your way to the woman’s pants. When you touch, the testosterone driven male energy in you is transferred to your woman indicating that you are ready to indulge in a bit of hanky panky. As long as you can keep the touching gentle, decent and appropriate, you are good to go. There is no rulebook that specifically defines the right ways to touch a woman, but being a grown man you should be able to realize where the line has been drawn for you to see and stop yourself. If affected correctly, touching has the potential to lead you and your partner into a good and wild session of raunchy session in the bed. The art of touching has many benefits when it comes to and should not be overlooked while trying to give your woman the best time of her life.
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