The classic “6 9” position is shaped like the yin yang, most appropriately. This mutually pleasurable position delivers simultaneous oral stimulation to both partners (and hopefully simultaneous orgasms). The idea of yin yang is that apparent opposites actually hold the universe together in tension. What could be a more fulsome expression of this than a man and woman having sex? Opposites attract, but they also form a tension and in this manifestation of the yin yang, which means the sexual tension you'll be drawing on to successfully execute one of the most popular sexual positions in the world.
That 6 9 not be attempted too early on in the up-ward arc of your sex play. Other foreplay should precede it. Men and women have differing agendas and challenges when it comes to reaching orgasm. Men have difficulty not cumming too soon, whereas women often feel they’re taking too long to do the same. That means you need to arrive at a mutual level of sexual arousal, taking into account your orgasmic differences. Stimulating your woman to reach this mutuality, either orally, or manually (perhaps using Tantric massage) is the best way to achieve it. This will make the 69 much more erotically charged and mutually satisfying. Read on to discover the dao (oneness) of yin yang.
While I’ve talked about cleanliness in this book before, it applies equally to both partners and what could be more stimulating than a bath or shower together? Your silicon lubricant, so effective for use in water, can be employed, as you bath each other’s bodies and you stimulate her to the point she needs to be. Tease her by demanding that she not touch your penis. (You do the same! You’ll need it to look its most attractive after your water play and that means being mouth ready, in all its awesome glory). You want to remain as hard as possible for as long as possible and let her catch up, to be good and sure she’s well primed for the Big Bang.
Whichever way you choose to execute the 69, be sure it’s completely comfortable for both of you. Woman hovering over man. Man hovering over woman. Both work, but not for everybody. Keep in mind that the object here is to get you both off, but if you’re reading this, you’re particularly interested in getting her off, so let her guide this decision. If your woman has a preferred way of performing this position, then that’s the way you need to go, if you want to ensure she has an orgasm. Another way you can do the 69 is by you being on all fours, with her on the bottom. It’s probably best for whoever’s on the bottom in this position to have a pillow to rest their head on, as it involves moving the head up and down and might strain the neck. Another option is lying side by, with each of you resting your heads on the other’s lower thigh.
As always, remaining aware of your woman's response can make or break the 69. You know why you’re here, Agent Orgasmo. You’re here to deliver the Big Bangs and make your woman the happiest in town. So pay attention to what's going on with her, even though I understand how difficult that is when she has her penis in your mouth, or is licking your balls. While it’s a challenge, it's not impossible and that’s the only way you’re going to know the dao of this position. Try not to get lost in the delicious sensations you're experiencing and think about your approach to her pleasure and how you can lick her into a frenzy and an unforgettable orgasm.
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