Like Madonna says - there's nothing like a good spanky. Yes, that's right. Spanking is as yet another way to help you help your women hit that high. It is indeed a silver bullet for some women.
As with a lot of other things we’ve discussed, spanking isn't a unilateral decision you make and just spring on your woman. It's something you need to explore with her. It's not a matter of just belting out words to the effect of “Hey! You want me to spank your ass?” No. Don’t do that. There's a better way.
Introducing spanking in the bedroom is really the only way to see if your woman is interested in the activity. The only reason she would be, of course, is if it's going to turn her on and help her get to the Big Bang. So your job is to tactfully and playfully gauge her reactions to a few exploratory taps on the hiney.
If she starts swearing at you and pushes you off the bed and onto the floor, you know the answer to your question.
If she giggles, ask her if she likes it. Then try another. Don't go overboard. That's a whole other discussion about sex. Spanking as part of sexual play should be fun and it should turn your woman on. Otherwise, it’s abusive and there’s nothing sexy about that. A little slap on a bare bum can be a real turn on for both of you. Just make sure it's mutual. Make sure she’s enjoying it and make sure it’s helping her get where she wants to go. As I have said throughout this book, you need to watch and listen. What’s her reaction? That’s all that matters. If she doesn’t like what you’re doing, stop. If she likes it, you’ve got a new tune in your orgasmic repertoire!
Once you’ve established that spanking is something that revs your woman up, (whether she’s the spankee or the spanker) find new ways of incorporating it into your sex play. You might even want to integrate spanking into some of your role-playing. Naughty schoolgirl meets head master? Or how about naughty schoolboy meets head mistress? That’s right! She may want to give your bum a smack, too. Sauce, Goose, Gander, baby! All is fair in love and war and sometimes, you’ll find a little spanking may get you as hot as it gets her! What's not to like?
Spanking doesn’t need to happen only in the bedroom. This kind of play can be a very subtle part of your daily life, engaged in even in public places as part of your extended foreplay strategy. It’s your little secret what you get up to while you’re getting up to it. And it’s your little secret when she gives you that wicked grin at the supermarket, after you affectionately tap her on the ass.
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