How confident do you feel in your current sex life with your partner?
You have an idea that your partner is probably enjoying herself by the sounds that she makes when she’s with you. But when asking if men want to be the best sexual partner that their wife or girlfriend has ever had, their eyes light up with excitement. Everyone wants to be their partner's best sexual partner. It is hardly a red in our competitive male brains to want to be the best everything, and this includes our sexual selves.
In order to understand how you can be your best in lovemaking, it's first important to understand that and women experience sex in somewhat different.
Both partners see sex as connection. Women, often than men, want sex in order to know that her partner still finds her desirable. She finds solace initiation of sex because it shows your attraction. Men, more often than women, experience sex primary means of connecting. Men want sex more whether or not they have sexual access-partner, conversation is great and but if feel that your partner is sexually available to shut down pretty quickly.
Just as a lot of your sexual self-esteem comes from the idea that you need sexual access to her, much of your partner’s comes from knowing that you are still very much attracted to her.
Because sex is such an emotional process, she wants to feel safe, secure, and sexy around you. You can increase your partner's feelings of safety, security and sexiness by demonstrating to her, both verbally and physically, how much you adore and appreciate her from a sexual standpoint.
Sex will come easier, she will initiate sex more than she currently does, and she will feel more comfortable pushing sexual boundaries with you if she feels safe and attractive.
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