Do you think dirty talk is erotic?Actually,most of people has the same thought about it.There are a few different reasons which is not just because of the taboo surrounding it.
Once you understand that dirty talk isn't dirty, there is nothing shameful or wrong about the dirty talk which doesn’t take away the feeling of taboo, due to the society that we live in today, but rather serves to enhance it; there is a feeling of shame saying these things out loud, and it is okay,but there is also the feeling of being so glad that (insert name of person here) can't hear me now; they would not believe that these words are coming out of my mouth if you don't like the phrasing dirty talk,there are many different ways of phrasing it, like naughty talk for example.
Men and women are hard-wired differently. Men like to hear,while women like to visualize,and that is completely natural too. A man wants to hear what their partner wants done to them, or wants to do for them before it is done. Hearing the words, screamed, moaned, whimpered, or whispered just flat out does it for most men. Women like to hear the words and imagine what those words or phrases will mean to them; how their partner will react, or how something will feel, even seconds or milliseconds before hand, giving their brains time to process the possibilities, thus heightening the sensations.
In addition that it provides an additional feeling of closeness between the two parties, because you are not only sharing your bodies with each other at that point, but you are also sharing your thoughts, providing an even further melding than would otherwise occur.
Talking dirty isn't just but saying what one person wants to do to, but it’s also about encouragement, and about politeness, yet sexy, redirection. One example of redirection was provided earlier; taking what could be an awkward and slightly emasculating statement and turning it into something that really serves to stroke the ego of the other person. It works to make the other person feel more secure, and as a result, more confident, and more sexy, which in turn assures that the person is less stuck inside their own head and more right there experiencing what is going on, instead of worrying, fretting, or simply not being as into it as they could be.
Sex is wonderful, amazing, incredible, and mind blowing, and there is no reason that two people should not be able to talk openly and freely, if only between themselves, if nowhere else, about exactly what they want, how they want it, when they want it, while still feeling sexy, confident, and above all, desired by their partner.
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