There are different kinds of women in the world, big girls or curvy girls, black girls with dreadlocks. However, obviously you are not going to desire the majority of the women in the world. You can cross out all of the ones who are physically not to your taste. If you don't find a woman attractive, don't hit on her, don't ask her out, don't do anything. Remember that whenever you like a woman, don't pressure yourself to live up to someone else's standards. For practical purposes, all of the women you're attracted to can be divided into 3 categories: unreceptive, neutral and receptive.
Women who're unreceptive
Women who are unreceptive are just those who are unavailable or uninterested in having a sexual/romantic relationship with you. The most common reasons that put women in this category are the following:
-You're far needier than she is, and she’s therefore not attracted to you.
-She has a boyfriend/husband and is happy in her relationship.
-There's too much friction preventing her from being willing to date you, such as a difference in values, difference in interests, bad logistics, etc.
-She’s not interested or looking for any man at the moment.
The way to check if she is unreceptive is if she repeatedly does not reciprocate your signs of interest and/or shows you signs of disinterest. If you invite her out for coffee and she keeps making excuses to why she can't, then she's unreceptive. If you call her three times and she never calls back, then she is unreceptive. If you chat her up and she explains that she is busy and wants to be alone, then she is unreceptive. If you hang out with her and she talks about how frustrated she is with her boyfriend and how you're such a good listener, then she's unreceptive.
Women who're neutral
This category can be difficult for men to understand because it's not as common for us as it is for women.Generally, a man knows within a few seconds if he's willing to meet and even sleep with a woman or not. Women aren't like that as they just spend a lot of time being unsure about a man and need to be swayed one way or the other. Women in this category are just who you've just met or have only spent a little bit of time with. What you shall notice is that women in this category do not remain in it forever. Instead, they eventually polarize one way or the other. If you never make an advance or show any interest in them, then they'll tend to polarize towards being unreceptive.
The goal with Neutral women is to take an action that forces her to make a decision about how she feels about you. Which side she polarizes to is far less important than actually taking action. Remember, if you leave her to her neutrality, she will usually become unreceptive.
Women who're receptive
Women who're receptive are those who are sexually or romantically attracted to you. You can recognize women who are receptive in two ways: 1) they initiate with you, and/or 2)they reciprocate your actions enthusiastically.How will a woman behave when she initiates with you?
-She makes strong eye contact with you and doesn't break it.
-She approches you.
-She touches you unprovoked.
-She asks for your number or invites you out with her/her friends.
-She asks you a lot of questions about yourself and seems genuinely interested in you.
-She introduces you to her friends.
-She gives you her number.
-She comes up with some excuse/story/reason for you to hang out with her.
However, you shall remember the fact that few women are going to initiate with you and the few who do won't initiate often, unless you're extremely good-looking or have a great lifestyle or you manage to meet women through good social contracts. Most women, especially very beautiful women, won't initiate with you even if they're attracted to you. Women usually expect men to initiate in the beginning. Another reason why women usually wait for men to initiate is strong cultural pressures.
Moreover, you can tell if a woman is receptive to you through the following common examples of reciprocation:
-She ignores her friends to stay and talk to you.
-She keeps very strong eye contact and laughs a little too much at every thing you say.
-When you touch her, she touches you in return.
-When you put your arm around her, she leans into you.
-When you take her hand to move somewhere, she holds it in return.
-When you ask her out on a date, she offers a place to go or mentions something she'd like to do with you.
Most interested women will reciprocate on small signals to show that they're interested in you. Catching on to how women reciprocate and noticing the signals is something that you develop with experience but this couldn't be too hard if you know what to pay attention to.
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