If you were and adult men, you probably have had rich experience in dating women. Even though you haven’t any, you certainly have thought about the such an exciting situation. However, how much have you thought about what women really want from a date? Probably very few.
Dating is about connection in the end. The images that come to mind when I think back to some of my best dates are eye-contact, laughter, intelligent conversation and heart-stopping sexual chemistry.
It's a common mistake that men make, assuming that women want the exact same things out of a date (especially the first few dates). Men believe that women need to be impressed. They think they want to be lavished with gifts and fancy dinners. But, when you ask most quality women how they would feel if a man spent a lot of money on them on their first date, they describe feelings of awkwardness, discomfort, and obligation. Think about it this way...
Women want your presence, not your presents.
Women are MUCH more impressed by a genuine emotional connection with a confident man than by a weak emotional connection with a guy that pulls out all of the stops on the first date. So stop trying to be impressive. Start allowing your dates to have the time and pacing necessary for connection to occur.
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