Women value more a man’s character and we their physical beauty. Perhaps one of the biggest reasons why most men struggle with dating and maintaining relationships with women is because they suffer from something called, "Nice Guy Syndrome" aka NGS.
This syndrome has transformed men into complete ass kissers with women. They often will put women on a pedestal waiting for them to throw a biscuit and say, nice boy, nice boy!"
I am probably exaggerating a bit here but the reality isn't that different. I included have suffered from this syndrome and I know plenty of guys who still do. Actually, the fact that the pick-up artist community even exists says a lot.
It’s because most men nowadays feel less worthy than women. Or you could say, they feel as they aren't good enough alone- For this reason, they try to overcompensate for their perceived lack of value. Commonly by finding external factors, such as：
1. Pick-up lines or other strategies to make them seem smarter or funnier around women
2. Bragging about their possessions and accomplishments
3. Showering women with gifts
The problem is by doing this their value doesn’t actually increase but rather lowers in women's eyes. Often women will quickly lose their interest on a man who spends his time bragging or using PUA material. Others may take advantage from a man who is constantly paying for everything and showering them with gifts.
Also usually men suffering from NGS will tolerate all sorts of misbehavior from women even more when in a relationship. From letting women boss them around, cheating and being rude.
They accept these mistreatment because they fear losing women by confronting them. But that is far from the truth! Actually, the funny part is regardless of all their attempts to please women and not push their hot buttons. In the end they still inevitably lose them. Quite ironic, right!
The fact is if a woman doesn’t respect a man then she will never love him. And therefore, sooner or later she will dump their weak guy over another one they perceive as being stronger. In other words, probably a man who considers himself worthier and doesn't put up with her shit.
In case if it is a woman who lacks any sense of morality then she may end up cheating. Quite similar to the story I already shared. But still try to keep her relationship alive probably only for financial reasons.
You may assume by what I said that somehow women have it better. However they don’t! The fact is women are having a hard time finding a man who really acts as a man and not as a nice boy.
Just imagine for a second going around town and only being able to find obese women. That would be like a nightmare!
Well women are basically having the same issue but in their case, it’s a reality. When a man acts weak or you could say lacks character. He is for women as an unattractive as an obese woman is for us.
Since women value more a man’s character and we their physical beauty.
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