A common question most men have is, how do women see whether a man has a strong character or not? Well, by their presence! This includes:
●How they hold themselves and walk
●How they express their thoughts while speaking to other people
●How they groom and dress
And more...pretty much tells women in a matter of a few seconds the type of man. Is he dressing like a slob or not? Does he speak boldly or barely no one can hear him? Does he have a relaxed and confident posture, or weak one?
All of these aspects and others make the difference between being considered attractive to a good amount of women. Or otherwise, nearly invisible to them.
Also women are very keen in seeing this on a man- just a glance and they either feel attracted to a man or not. Quite similar to how we can look at a girl and see whether she is beautiful or not. Nothing of this is also done consciously. They either feel it or not!
As I said before, most men worry so much about what to say to women. Instead, they should be focusing on bettering their first impression. Not only by improving their presence but also overall lifestyle.
Because if you feel better and more excited about your life than your presence will also reflect that. You will naturally smile more, feel more energized and confident talking to other people.
Your first impression really hits home runs when it comes to attracting women. It makes all the rest afterward possible or easier at least. When you go up to a girl she already wants you. This means great part of your work is already done from the start.
And therefore, you don’t feel the need to impress her with fancy lines or strategies. Instead you should try to get to know her and see if she is someone you actually like.
I remember a few years ago, I went out to with my coworkers. As we were dancing, there was a guy standing outside of the dance floor. Just staring at women with his back hunched and hands inside of his pockets.
He looked nervous and desperate and in women's lingo this is the same as looking creepy. Actually, his presence was so bad that my coworkers couldn't help it but laugh at him.
In a way, most men commonly not as bad as this guy have an unattractive presence. They look nervous and desperate which is the exact opposite of looking relaxed and confident.
And therefore, ruin their first impression with women as soon as they enter into a venue. Women look at them and immediately don't feel attracted.
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