Don’t assume women are attracted to men based on the same qualities we are attracted on them. A lot of men do this mistake and for this reason have a shit load of insecurities around their physical appearance. They think women are mostly attracted to their physical aspects alone.
This thinking limits immediately their amount of success with women. If they are below or average looking then they immediately consider a beautiful woman out of their league. So they don’t even give it a shot.
As a result, they commonly end up feeling depressed by their lack of sexual encounters. And typically, settle for a woman they aren’t attracted.
I am also not saying your physically looks don't help. It does but it is not as important as most guys tend to assume. I have met a good share of men who are great looking and still struggle with women. On contrast, I know guys who are below average looking and never seem to lack women.
So what is the deal here? It means you don’t need to be good looking to be able to attract women. In case you are then it certainly won't hurt. But it's more like an added bonus rather than all that really matters.
Other traits also seem to depend on women’t economic situation. For instance a wealthy man may be considered more attractive by women living in poverty.
Since they can barely pay for their life and therefore, see him as a good provider. Otherwise for a middle class woman with a stable job not so much. And obviously even less for a financially successful woman. Actually, most gold diggers commonly come from poverty.
Also if money, fame and power was as important then we wouldn’t often watch on the news famous and wealthy actors or musicians getting divorced and their ex-wife sometimes running away with half of their money. For example, Brad Pitt and Angelia Jolie once considered the perfect couple by many folks.
Brad Pitt basically has the complete package that most men assume they need to attract beautiful women. He is great looking, famous and wealthy. By this thinking you have thought that Angelina Jolie would worship him. Instead she filed him for divorce.
So if physical looks and money aren’t that important then what do women want? It is hard to say since some qualities seem to vary a lot. But one thing is certain they commonly love guys with a strong character. This includes being:
●Confident
●Courageous
●Healthy
●Honest
●Sexually comfortable
●Ambitious
In other words, a man who has good fashion sense and is healthy. Who has passions, hobbies and works hard to achieve his life purpose. Who is nat afraid of being different in terms of lifestyle and opinions, and therefore, getting criticize by other people.
That is also comfortable being sexual with women and doesn’t beat around the bushes as most men tend to do.
Now going back to my old buddies; they definitely don't have all of these qualities. Actually, they seem to fail in plenty of them. A few of them do drugs and drink too much. And none of them seem to have any serious life purpose.
However, they still have plenty of women! The reason is they seem to always be extremely comfortable around women. But at the same time brutally honest about their sexual interests and they show this in several ways:
● By dressing sexier compared to most other men
●Their eye contact with women is very sexual
●They are sexually forward with the women they want
And women look at them and immediately know they are bad news! They definitely are not going to be the dude holding their bags; while they shop around. More likely, the one fucking their brains out in the mail's bathroom.
A lot of women love this shit! The mix between danger and sex; is quite aphrodisiac for them. Another part is women feel as they will be the ones able to save them. Help them resolve their life issues. And somehow out of all the women out there, they will finally fall in love with them and commit. Of course, I have yet to see that happen.
I have no doubt you could merely focus only on these qualities and get a lot of beautiful women. However, you only heard one side of the story. The other part is these guys commonly are pretty unhappy.
All of them seem to have a work they hate, are unhealthy and end up dating insecure women or often complete whack jobs. Besides, their relationships rarely isn’t long.
For this reason, you should focus on building all of the qualities I mentioned before. This way you will feel happy about yourself and lifestyle. But in this case, u will rather attract smart, interesting and beautiful women.
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