• How Will You Deal with Your Partner’s Obsessions?

    Elie Wiesel’s famous quote, “The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference,” applies to big world problems as well as intimate problems in the aftermath of betrayal. Smart Rebuilders realize they must avoid difference if they hope to save their marriages. Strayers who show apathy toward their hurting spouses send a message, “You aren’t worth my effort.”On the other hand
    Linda J. MacDonald, M.S., LMFT 7 years ago 12661 Read more...
  • What Max Frische and Gerald Durrell Say about Jealousy?

    “Jealousy is the fear of comparison” — Max FrischeThis quotation is one that you should always remember. At the back of the mind when jealousy is exercised is the fear of comparison. Is she prettier than me? Is he better looking than me? What can she give you that I cannot? Why could she get away with it when I can’t?Comparison is not only evil, but it also causes all kinds of rifts.
    Sofia Price 7 years ago 7750 Read more...
  • Have You Ever Imagined You’re Shopping in the Universe?

    Take a cue from the way you shop at the grocery. Notice that when you go to a grocery without a list, you end up roaming the aisles and have items in your shopping cart that you do not need. The same goes for this exercise. To find access and possess the things that you are looking for in the world, you need to make a list out of it. The list does not have to be done only on a piece of p
    John Baskin 7 years ago 10539 Read more...
  • Why It just Isn’t Fair?

    Sadly, the world is filled with injustices. People go to prison for things they did not do. One of my uncles spent twenty years in prison for a crime he did not commit. His wife, who did commit the crime, confessed right before she died, and he was released. But sadly, by then he had tuberculosis and lived only a few more years. I remember that my uncle was always a very kind man and seeme
    Joyce Meyer 7 years ago 8145 Read more...
  • Will You Respond to Your Spouse’s Triggers?

    When the knowledge of infidelity slams into a marriage, unsuspecting spouses feel shattered on many levels. They question their own perceptions about the world, what is real, and who they can trust. Up feels like down and down feels like up. Reminders of the affair traumatize them over and over again, much like revisiting the scene of a car accident where a loved one has died.Intimate betr
    Linda J. MacDonald, M.S., LMFT 7 years ago 13214 Read more...
  • How Much Do Your Self-awareness and Vulnerability Contribute to Emotional Connection?

    Your ability to connect with a woman emotionally is proportional to how self-aware you are of your own emotional processes and motivations.As described before, self-awareness and vulnerability will cause you to behave in a less needy manner, they give her the chance to know the “real you,” to trust you, and to open her own emotions up to you.Ultimately, this is what most women want. If y
    Mark Manson 7 years ago 13641 Read more...
  • What William Penn and Gary Alien Say about Jealousy?

    You may wonder why I included this at the end of the book -it's because these are all food for thought. There are so many quotations on jealousy that may make you think that your situation really does need examination and dissection, but until you do face your demons, you will have to face the negativity you choose to live with by being jealous.           
    Sofia Price 7 years ago 9020 Read more...
  • Emotional Connection Is Related to Feelings

    The most important rule of emotional connection is to related to feelings, not facts. Seduction is about feelings, not facts. This is why you can often meet a woman who shares a lot in common with you — same hometown, same occupation, same interests, lives on the same street — and have no connection or chemistry whatsoever. But then you can meet a women who has lived an entirely differ
    Mark Manson 7 years ago 9757 Read more...
  • Have You Ever Practiced Creative Visualization?

    Creative VisualizationApplying the Law of Attraction towards the attainment of goals is not only possible but also represents one of the most potent applications of the Law. Called the process of creation, this is a power that can be utilized to physically manifest or turn into reality achieved goals and of the best steps towards accessing the power is through visualization.Remember the id
    John Baskin 7 years ago 10533 Read more...
  • How to Change Your Role from Destroyer to Healer (2)?

    Successful Rebuilders are more sorry for their spouse’s pain than for their own guilt.Rebuilders grieve over their partners’ sorrows without allowing their own self-pity to distract them. It is good for betrayers to be remorseful about what they have done. Yet, a betrayer’s regret for his/her guilt needs to not supersede a deeper regret for the faithful spouse’s agony.Healthy guilt
    Linda J. MacDonald, M.S., LMFT 7 years ago 15157 Read more...

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