We all know that both man and woman attract each other. But what makes that happen? Did this just fall into place and happen on its own? The answer is no. However, if you want to have a deep understanding about this question, digging far back into the past is necessary. Why? Since this topic is about a big purpose which is furthering our species, so it’s quite necessary to trace back. As most humans are well-aware, females grow fetuses inside of their wombs, a process which requires the better part of a year. Not only that, but they have to avoid risk and stay healthy in order to ensure the survival of their baby.
First of all, there are differences between two sexes. Women are weaker and shorter than men in strength and height. This is a necessary part of reproduction. In order to foster the baby inside, women obviously have more fat on their bodies than men. Due to the differences between men and women, men can grow taller and have more muscles in born, which endows them with physical strength.
When you find a woman is attractive, this proves that she has value on a genetic level. Nature has a perfect structure, and that includes the reproductive and coupling process of human beings. In fact, when a woman turns you on, the signal from her is that she has a genetic value for reproduction. Being healthy and young proves that a woman is able to have babies. That’s why men are attracted by women’s youth, maturity (like wide hips and breasts) are considered to be beautiful and attractive. It is a fact that when you think a woman is pretty, she happens to enjoy all these qualities. Now you certainly understand that why men love smooth skin, shiny long hair, perfect figure, etc.
The attraction to women is the same as for men? The answer is no. Many guys think that women regard physical traits to be just as significant when determining whether or not a guy is appealing and attractive or not. However, when you see that many beautiful actresses and super models are married to men who are not physically attractive, you will see the differences. Females benefit, and have benefited evolutionarily, by the masculine traits of men, which include protection, support, and devotion.
These are the reasons why males are drawn to feminine and beautiful women, and why females are drawn to manly men. Following this line of reasoning, in order to be more appealing to women, you have to show them the value you have genetically, by being more masculine. If you’re a man, it’s not a matter of just being more masculine, but of allowing your true masculinity to shine through uninhibited.
Now you should know that showing your masculinity to women is quite important if you want to be attractive to women. Here are some tips telling you what you should not do in front of a woman. The traits you should avoid are:
1. Physical weakness.
2. Being scared or youthful.
3. Extreme anxiety.
4. Indirectness or vulnerability.
5. Feeling ashamed or nervous.
Just keep in mind that don’t show these traits in front of women because you won’t be appealing and attractive. If you act this way, you are simply sending the message that you are not reliable to her.
Essentially, the higher a man’s masculinity level, the more appealing he will be to females, and the higher a woman's femininity, the more appealing she will be to most men. The qualities of femininity and masculinity are basically opposite, and attract each other and go together like any other pair of opposites; day and night, light and dark, or the sun and the moon.
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