By trying different positions or stretching our comfort zone a bit can certaily be of great fun. However, there's another way to have fun too and that's a "quickie"- a sexual interlude in which its goal is just to have him reach climax as fast as possible.Foreplay certainly can make woman feel really good; while quickies also can bring both woman and man some great benefits and fun such as more laughter and variety for both. Moreover, they can bring quick relaxation for both and make you both feel emotionally closer.
Both will laugh
Just imagine,if you've ever run upstairs while the kids are in front of a DVD, knowing that you have very little time, it's funny. And then you finish, go back downstairs and pretend like nothing happened. It's like you both share a little secret now.
She sees how much he wants her
Ladies, do you feel insecure about your body? Feel like you're not really attractive? A quickie is often the cure. Most mengo to great lengths to make themselves last while you're making love normally because they want you to have a good time, too. But tell him, “go as fast as you can because we have to beat the clock, or the DVD, or the school bus, or whatever it might be”, and suddenly you see how much he really does love and desire you. It can be a big ego boost-and that ego boost is also an aphrodisiac, since a large part of the female libido is feeling desired.
She boosts her libido while calming his down
If it's often been a problem in your relationship that he can't last long enough for her to get real satisfaction, this can be the cure! If you have a quickie early in the day, he satisfies the physical buildup he’s feeling. But she rarely does (although some women, of course, do find quickies satisfying, but that's the minority). Instead, she starts her libido chaining. Then, the next time you make love, he's more likely to last longer, and she's more likely not to take as long.
Add variety for both
It's always good to do things differently sometimes. It shows both of you that you care about the relationship and that you want to keep it fun.
Stress will be lowered for both
Because many men are worried about their wives receiving pleasure they often don't get to relax during an encounter. This lets them just focus on the pleasure, which can be very intense. Men aren’t the only ones often nervous about women receiving pleasure. We often get quite nervous about it, too, especially if we're trying to orgasm. Take the pressure off, and ironically a quickie can be the most pleasurable for many women!
Since quickies are just as fun and beneficial as foreplay sometimes, they can help increase emtional intimacy in a relationship, and even help to solve some tough problems or save time.To make quickies work best, you'd better make some good preparations such as having lubricant on hand, then just go with it and laugh through!
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