How the difference of nature of Adam and Eve creates problems in the sex lives of many couples? A man would love to pull his pants down, jump into bed and start the act right away while a woman on the other hand would like her man to go slow at first and then turn on the beast mode during the end. A man would be direct and aggressive while a woman would be subtle and suggestive.
Here are some tips for you to create the right mood for a woman to be ready for the best orgasm she deserves to receive from you:
Showering affection on your woman need not be restricted to giving her a good sex session. Remember that sex starts well before the bed. You must always take care to pay your lady the special attention that she deserves. Hug her from behind randomly while she is busy cooking, help her out with household chores, distribute the labor of the house as equally as possible, pay her compliments regarding her new dressing gown, apologize when you have committed a mistake and don’t be stubborn while doing so. Mean what you say and be a good partner. Affection is something that should not be neglected in a relationship. Make your woman feel an essential part of your life; as opposed to just someone you come home to every night to fulfill your carnal desires.
Creating the right mood depends a lot on how you behave with your woman during those times when you are not in the mood. It is easy for a man to shrug off suggestions for sex when he is not in the mood for it. However, you must not be blunt about your refusals. It is of course not humanely possible for you to keep having sex the entire day but if you keep avoiding sex only because you are too busy with work, it is going to affect you and your partner in the long run. Make sure that when you give your woman the reasons for your inability to participate in sex, you mention specifically how you would have loved to do it but cannot because of the said reason. When you make such a kind gesture, it shows that you care for them, and there is nothing more turning on than a man who takes care of such little matters.
Like it has been said above, the beauty lies in the little things. Do not miss out on the irrelevant yet important things in your relationship with your female partner. In order to make her feel important, you must take great care to ensure her satisfaction. Bring her regular presents even if it is not a special occasion to celebrate. Find time for her when she is aware that you are extremely busy in a client meeting. Take unexpected leaves from your work to turn up at the doorstep with flowers and chocolates. Take her out for sudden dates. Read to her the morning news when she is busy making you a sandwich. Talk to her about things that have been bothering you; such things do not need to be related to your relationship. These could be an annoying boss or a clingy co-worker. Make sure that you share your views about things in general with her. You could talk about your honest opinions on feminism, world politics, invasions of the power banks of the planet and a variety of other things.
When it comes to creating the right mood for the ultimate occasion, it’s time you took some lessons. Plan everything with precision. Make sure that the linen you put on your bed is a nice color that is pleasing to the eyes and the bare human skin. Set the mood right by playing her favourite music, You can enhance the attraction by wearing her favourite pair of boxers. You can also choose to take her out on a movie date before you come home and indulge in some naughty business. Buy the panties you always thought would look superb on her. Lingerie is another matter, but women love it when their men go lingerie shopping with them.
Light some candles in the room you have planned to perform your ultimate act. If possible, prefer scented candles as a good atmosphere of scent often helps women homy. Whisper in her ear all the things you would like to do to her. Play some naughty acts of hard-to-get before letting your female partner have a taste of you. Remember that women love it when men do not succumb to their seduction. It makes them try harder until men give in and jump right down to business. Allow your female partner to indulge in a bit of seduction techniques before you dive in.
Music is an important part of sex. You may not put so much importance on music but play the right kind and your female partner is bound to get impressed and by extension set herself up for a good orgasm. Know your partner’s music choice. There might be some certain songs or bands that she is crazy about. Create a sex-songs playlist if you have to and put the same on loop. The power of music to induce a powerful orgasm in females has been long neglected. It is time men started paying attention to the impact the right music has on female’s bodies. The only sound during your sexual session should not be limited to your name-calling.
The importance of setting up the appropriate mood is often ignored by most men. It is the first and one of the most important steps for a woman to achieve a good orgasm. Like it has been stressed before, an orgasm starts way before the woman climbs the bed. A woman’s mind is built in such a way that values like trust, affection and compassion are of prime importance to them and they find such values to be sexy in her man. Be the man that she wishes you to become. You don’t have to necessarily change your basic nature but for the sake of the love of your life and to help them get more pleasure you can take some risks and try to tweak some elements of your dull personality. You would be surprised to know that women find qualities like kindness, forgiving nature and sympathy to be more manly than conventional masculine qualities like stubbornness, arrogance and being headstrong.
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