Do Men And Women Think About Sex The Same?

Well, men at some point become laid back and assume women have no solid say when it comes to sex. This should not be the case in marriage. Women also want to enjoy sex as much as men do. Don't get shocked. Women too have their moments. There are times their minds are filled with thoughts of sex that they wish would come to reality. There is very obvious proof to back this statement. It may even come as a surprise to married men how often women think about sex in a day. Look at the number of copies of magazines sold with titles like 'Sexiest men the world' or sales of movies that have sexual portrayal of a woman’s thoughts about sex; they are millions. You will not find women focusing on the recipes in these magazines and movies. Deep down sex is a motivator to pay top dollar for them. Besides, communication and human contact are also of great significance in helping establishing a healthy intimate bond.

It is important to communicate effectively with each other in marriage. The problem does not lie in the fact that women don't want sex or the other way around; it lies in how partners approach each other regarding intimacy. Sometimes partners need to be creative and set the mood for sex. Each partner should take up the challenge and ensure that the marriage bed rocks like in the old days. More of this will be discussed in this book and how sex can be brought back to life.

Physical connection in marriage is affected by so many factors; like touch. Touch means you acknowledge your partner's presence. Pegging a healthy marriage on having sex everyday severely undermines the importance of sex and keeps reinforcing this notion in the society that great sex equals great marriage. The sex can be frequent but downright empty. It can be done less frequently yet remarkably enhance the bond between two people. To attribute only Sex to a healthy marriage is blowing the importance of sex badly out of proportion.

Human contact is also part of a healthy marriage. Couples should look into enhancing their bond not only through sex but also through other aspects like touching while talking, wrapping their arms around each other and hugging regularly. Often couples even forget how their partners lips taste. Kissing is so intimate and is one of the most influential aspects of human contact. Needless to say, sex will turn out to be great with such loving gestures during the day.