So are you looking for marriage tips? Do you think there is to improve in your relationship? Then don’t wait any longer and keep reading! You wo^t be disappointed.
Tip 1： Apologize Often
Even when you don't feel like it, apologizing is what keeps your relationship together. I never apologized as much as since when I got married. Why? Because I usually had good intentions, but my partner often found something I did accidentally wrong The thing is, you're not a bad person or sinner when you apologize. A simple, '"Sorry, I didn't mean to dothat.” can reassure your partner of your good intentions. Put away your pride and say you’re sorry. I have noticed that the most annoying people to get along with are those who have a hard time apologizing.
Tip 2: Go to Bed Angry
Some Christians have interpreted the Bible verse *let not the sun go down on your wrath in Ephesians 4:26 as a marriage advice to always solve your conflict before you go to sleep. Well, I have found that it is nonsense to try to solve something that can(t be solved within a few minutes. When you’re tired and angry and not open to feedback, that’s the exact moment you should just go to sleep. It's okay to go to bed angrily. Just make sure you solve it later.
Tip 3: Give More Back
Unconsciously, every person has a balance in his or her head of what they put into the relationship and what they got out of it. It may be financially, time wise, physical efforts, or intimate sharing time; don't even out the balance, but try to make the balance shift by giving more than y〇ufre receiving. This way, you^ll always be safe and your partner will feel like he/she is getting their value out of the relationship.
Tip 4： Listen Carefully
Listening is one of those skills that has gone lost a little in the 21st century. Put your technology away, show inter-est, and keep asking questions. Make eye contact, nod, and affirm what you just heard.
Tip 5： Ask Questions
Like I just mentioned... showing interest and giving attention involves more than just listening and saying, 'Yes, that's nice. Show them that you care about what's in their head and keep digging. Nobody tells the whole story. There is always more to listen from what they are telling: What they where it was at, what time it took place, how it changed their views, how intense it was, what it reminded them of.
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