Marriage need to be managed in daliy life. Here this passage introduces three "Be"s advice to boost your marriage quality.
Tip 1: Be Excited when He/She Comes Home
Maybe your spouse has a day - business trips, or interaction with children (picking them up, dropping them off) every day. I know it becomes a routine after a while so it seems less special, but try be when your spouse comes home. Sadly, in marriage, sometimes the dog is more excited about its owner than the spouse who willfully chose to marry that person. Don’t let the dog beat you to it.
Tip 2： Be Honest
Just like showing trust is essential in a marriage, it is also of vital significance to be completely honest with each other. Make sure you hide nothing. That doesn't mean you have to tell them everything (they might not want to hear about your toilet experiences or the boring conversation you had with one of your colleagues), but it DOES mean that you don’t deliberately cover any thing up.
Make sure your children know that the bedroom is a private place for their mother and father to enjoy talking, cuddling, or doing something fun. When you're doing private stuff, let them know that the door is locked for an approximate amount of minutes.
Tip 3: Be a Hero
See yourself as a hero/heroine, someone who does what’s right and is constantly conquering weaknesses, circumstances, etc. You want to be someone your partner can rely on, even when times get tough.
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