Marriage is...
Caring no matter how bad of a situation or how little a situation. It's learning to listen even when you don‘t want to hear. In short, it's about being there for one another even when you feel like it's not important enough to you. But it may be very important to your partner. It’s about sharing, caring, and being best friends.
Marriage is:
•Laughter
•Trust
•Love
•Compromise
•Compassion
•Companionship
•Partnership
•Pursuing common goals
•Respecting different goals
•Positive reinforcement
•Faith
•Patting each other on the back
•Supporting each other's passions
•Tolerance
•Sharing
•Growing together
•Have common things which you both enjoy together
You know your marriage is going to succeed when you stop trying to change each other.
Knowing that there will be times when you will not always “like” each other, but knowing in your heart and by your words and actions that you will always ,”love” each other.
Not easy! You go into marriage thinking that you are just going to live life together. Little did you know it is so much more. ..like dirty laundry! Literally and implied. You have to work at it so you better make sure you love that person more than anyone or anything. It is a team effort of “give and take”. Not everyone is on that same page. Your spouse might not be on that page so you have to decide how you are going to handle it.
Marriage is rewarding and fulfilling! You feel like a real grow-up!
It is an adventure, full of peaks and valleys.
Marriage is...a commitment. You are saying to the other person, “I promise that I will work on and fight for this relationship even when it isn’t easy."
Two hearts giving themselves to each other to no longer be two, but one. Instead of being separated, their interests and paths are now together.
It is a union of 2 fearlessly in love people who have dreams of being together the rest of their lives.
Marriage is growing together to write one beautiful story that the two of you will cherish the most.
Marriage is a fun, memorable journey with the love of your life that encases every aspect of all emotions. Despite what occurs during this union, remember that you two are always a team-as a husband said, “Never forget We came first, and when they (the children) are gone, it is just going to be you and me.
It is a commitment that has to be worked on daily by both partners, simply because you want to make the other one happy.
It is a tough job. There are lots of hills and valleys. People seldom change but can sometimes adjust. If you can learn to overlook the things that aren’t important and keep the love alive, you'll do fine.
Marriage is: Two imperfect people with two different backgrounds, two different beliefs, and two different families, joining as one, and finding their way through this crazy thing we call “life”.
Marriage is a lifetime negotiation. It's worth it to share a life with someone who cares about you and loves you.
Marriage is the union of two individuals who delight in one another, value what the other brings to their relationship, and choose to travel into the unknown relying on the other person's strengths. People marry because life with their partner is much more fulfilling than living life alone or living life with another.
It is work... but worth it! Never give up. Your partner can be your best friend. Sometimes you get frustrated and, yes, even mad!! But he/she is a keeper!
Marriage is first and foremost a partnership built on mutual respect, honesty and commitment. There has to be much “give and take” and looking at life from both perspectives. Because of many decisions through time, there are going to be differences of opinion. Communication with your partner is key to finding the right answers for you as a couple and family.
Love means keeping the other person's perspective your open heart.
All that is good and holy.
Marriage is: Hard work, but worth it. It's learning to appreciate the things you love about that person and graciously dealing with or accepting the things you don't. It’s a blessing to share a family with and enjoy all the personalities. Marriage complements each of you.
Marriage is making time for each other and accepting you aren't necessarily wired the same way and never will be.
A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.
Marriage is not easy but worth it with a partner for life!
Marriage is: a covenant. A sacred promise to live together in love.
Marriage is a sensational event! There are wonderful emotional and all sorts of chemicals exploding through your body. It can be the best part of your life. It will be a busy time but sharing it with someone that you can talk and laugh with makes it great.
Marriage is the beginning of a trip through life that everyone should take. There should be lots of joy and true happiness. Because, it is a long journey and and will include so many events that will influence the next stage of life, you need to be sure that you have a partner that can endure the ups and downs. One should have in mind what it is that will help give them the emotions and sensations that they need to find this kind of love with another and stay for then entire journey.
Marriage is a 100% partnership. You both take the good, the bad, and the ugly. And you learn to know when to negotiate and compromise with each other.
Marriage is a journey that starts out at the highest and most exciting point in one's relationship with another.
Marriage is a promise to another human, but it's also a covenant to God. It's created as a sacred gift. Never take that lightly The bible tells us, “God HATES divorce"... It should be held in the highest level of respect, and as your most devoted relationship, this side of heaven.
Marriage is being selfless... Which is why I personally believe so many marriages fail. Ego, pride and selfish desires are the exact opposite of what a marriage should be.
Marriage is a life-long commitment that you have to work on everyday to make it the best it can be!
Marriage is hard work. You won't marry someone who was raised just like you. Your ‘wiring’ will be different. Everyday should be somewhat of a struggle to adapt your behaviors to that which best serves your spouse... and if you marry wisely, your spouse will make the same sacrifices for your happiness' sake. If you tend to be passive aggressive and your spouse needs full conversation for closure, you both will have to bend and compromise for closure, you both will have to bend and compromise until you find a balance you can live with... indefinitely. This is just one example. But the list goes on... how you manage your finances, what faith you raise your children, how you manage and maintain your home, etc.
Marriage is dedication. Dedicate yourselves to each other, to your vows, to your principles.
Marriages are a lifetime of give and receive. Giving more will always be the better choice. Marriage is your safe place, comfort zone, trials and errors, and love nest.
Faith is the common denominator in our marriage of 55 years. Plus we had great examples from our parents.
Marriage is remembering to do the small stuff for each other.
Marriage is finding that special best friend and wanting to be with them the rest of your life.
Marriage is a serious step to take. Make time know the person, really know the person, be able to see the good and make sure it outnumbers the bad. Don't be fooled by someone who is charming, funny and wealthy as all those things can be gone in a minute. Know who you are, what you want and compliment the person you choose.
Marriage is grace.
A good marriage is your best accomplishment.
A forever marriage is like a roller coaster ride that two people in love decide to share together. It will have its ups and downs and plenty of turns. There will be laughter, joy, anxiety and tears! There will also be hugs, kisses and tenderness. A forever marriage won't take "the love of their lives” for granted when the ride gets too rough but will hold on tightly to protect and commit, no matter what, to a lifetime of love!
Marriage is...learning and working hard at respecting each other’s “wants” and “dreams” and trying not to discourage if it is something your spouse really wants. Talk through all decisions you make in your marriage, whether it is work, children, discipline, large purchases anything that matters to each other, the evening or pick a time to talk about your day both knew what was gong on in each others lives. When children were old enough, we always had dinner at the table and the children always had to talk about what was going on in their lives.
Marriage is like a roller coaster with its ups, downs, twists and turns. Calm, happy day days can change to stormy ones very quickly and it takes two people who love each other to work through these difficult time and not give up. Respect, honesty, and trust play key roles in a successful marriage. An unexpected surprise of love and caring whether it be a bouquet of flowers, a gentle hug, or an “I love you” can warm the heart. The words “Thank You” stretch a long way towards happiness. When disagreements set it, as they will, discuss the problems and not let them fester until grudges are formed. A good walk around the block clears the mind. Spoken, hurtful words cannot be taken back!
Marriage is a work in progress. Changes occur as the years go by. With patience, understanding, and the ability to decide which issues are important to pursue as individuals and those that are important to pursue as a couple, you will have a full and complete life.
Marriage is-being attentive and listening to your spouse -enjoying the times with your spouse. If you do no enjoy being together and doing things together,then you have a big red flag-not placing blame but resolving differences together -being willing to forgive.
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