Clitoral orgasm is the most commonly sought after variety of orgasm, this one is the Holy Grail and is probably the easiest to help her achieve. Clitoral stimulation during sex play can result in intense pleasure that starts from the clitoris and extends practically all over your woman’s body. The clit (a pet name by which this organ is known) is potentially the most sensitive area of your womans body because of the rich concentration of nerve endings in it. As a man, it would help you to think about putting all the nerve endings from your penis' head on a pea-sized organ instead. It’s that nerve-concentrated and like said earlier, ground zero for a woman's network of sexual response nerves!
The clit is crucial to your womans sexual pleasure to the extent that it's almost always aroused sexually. The only thing left for discussion is the amount of arousal felt. Hence, this organ is very receptive to different kinds of touching although in varying degrees for every woman. Some women are easily aroused by any kind of touch. Some are even capable of reaching orgasm just by squeezing the muscles of the vaginal walls, or by walking down the street. The front seam in a pair of jeans or underwear is all it takes for such lucky women! For other women, more stimulation is needed. They may need more intentional and direct contact with the clit to reach orgasm. Some womens clits are so sensitive that any direct contact can cause more pain than pleasure! These are women who need a gentle touch and a lot of lube (always keep some handy). Your mission then, should you choose to accept it, Agent Orgasmo, is to know your woman well enough in order to give her just the right amount of clitoral stimulation for maximum pleasure and ultimately, orgasm. Won’t getting to know her really, really well be loads of fun? Oh yes. It will!
Getting there is half the fun
You can give your woman clitoral orgasms several ways. One is orally, i.e., cunnilingus, or licking her. Run your tongue’s tip gently across her clit and adjust the pressure, speed and placement of your tongue according to her moaning and other reactions. Trust me, you’ll know if you’re pressing your tongue too vigorously or too softly on her clitoris. Experiment. Just make sure to pay close attention. You can run your tongue's tip across her clitoris in a figure-8 manner. You can also simply lick it upward like licking an ice cream.
Tickle one side, then the other. Insert it in the opening to her vagina and run it along the labia minora. Vary what you're doing, until the point of no return and then pay close attention to the sounds and movements of your woman. It’s your call and that call will become more accurate as you get better at gauging her response. Aside from the amount of pressure, you can also increase or decrease the pleasure by adjusting the speed at which you run your tongue across her clit. You can also very gently suck it and while doing that, tickle it with your tongue (keep your teeth away from this very sensitive little fella, though - you don't like teeth either,right).Brother,you won’t believe how sexual you'll be able to give her by knowing how to give good head (and just how wet she can get). If you get this right, you will be her king!
Another way you can help your woman achieve orgasm, is by letting your fingers do the walking. Start stimulating her clit lightly until she’s all wet and wild. When she is, adjust the pressure and speed accordingly, based on how she reacts and moans. Again, pay close attention to your woman because it can be uncomfortable - painful even - if you overdo it. For an even greater turn on, why don’t you ask her to show you how she masturbates or touches herself. This has the benefit of turning both of you on as well as letting you know how to fondle her clit optimally to give her a great orgasm. Remember that some women are more shy than others about demos like this, but with time, she may just offer, as she comes to know that Agent Orgasmo means business and aims to please.
Do it right and you give your woman a great way to preparation for an even bigger bang with the next orgasm.
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