Women have the advantage over men when it comes to the variety of sexual pleasure they are able to receive (not to mention the ease with which women can have multiple orgasms compared to most men). While most men only have one option for the kind of orgasm they can have with their sexual organs, women possess three types that can be induced. Unfortunately, due to the lack of quality sex education in a lot of the developed world, most people (men and women) are unaware of this fact.
The key to helping your partner achieve any of the three types of orgasms (and to being a mind-blowing lover in general) is to be a good listener, if you really listen to her and pay attention to how she is responding to your touch, you'll be much better at easing the sexual pressure on or off in any one moment.
1.Clitoral
Clitoral orgasms are generally the easiest to achieve and are a relatively introductory orgasm compared to the othe two orgasms. The clitoris has roughly double the amount of nerve endings than those found in the entire penis. It’s function is to act as a pleasure button for your partner. Therefore, it can be extremely sensitive at times, especially when she is first starting to become aroused.
The clitoris responds well to sameness. Once you found a motion that your partner enjoys sensation of up-and-down, side-to-side, squeezing, keep the same rhythm and pressure until orgasms or seems like she is becoming too sensitive which case, you may need to slow down.
Clitoral orgasms have a similar build-up, peak, button cycle as a deeply satisfying sneeze. And sneezes, many women are able to have multiple clitoral orgasms in one night of lovemaking (but don’t touch it right after she comes as it is often much too sensitive to touch for a few seconds/minutes afterwards).
If you are unsure as to how your partner prefers to have her clitoris stimulated, ask her to masturbate for you briefly. Pay close attention to how she touches herself. Does her hand move primarily side to side, up and down, or in circles? How light or firm is her touch? Then, minor her movement, matching the direction, pressure,and pacing with your mouth or tongue and pay attention to her response. Remember the key word for being a great lover: listen.
Once she has reached a clitoral orgasm, her labia will engorged and her vagina will be much more receptive further stimulation (making it easier for her to achieve the next two types of orgasm).
2.G-Spot
The G-Spot produces a more powerful and fulfilling orgasm than the clitoris does. This orgasm can also arouse the woman to ejaculate. (Don't worry; it’s not pee.)
The G-Spot (also known as the Grafenberg spot) is a quarter-sized area located one to two knuckles deep in side the vaginal canal on the anterior stomach side wall. The G-Spot has been studied for decades but existence has been debated-unlikely by men who could locate it within their partner.
To stimulate the G-Spot, insert one or two fingers in the vagina and make a beckoning motion. Similar to clitoris, you want to start off somewhat softly, adding more pressure and intensity to your fingers the course of several minutes. It can take any time from two to twenty minutes to achieve a G-Spot through manual stimulation so make sure you arm is up for the challenge (and make your partner comfortable and as relaxed as possible).
G-spot orgasms can also trigger a much bigger thing of emotion for the recipient consider. Warned that your partner might laugh, stay controllably for a few minutes during/after. Whatever you do, stay with her and keep controllable around her. If she starts crying and you freak out and put physical or emotional distance between the two of you, she will trust you less and your sex life (and relationship) will suffer for it. She will only ever give you what she thinks you are able to handle. Show her that you have the mental strength and maturity to handle whatever she throws at you and your mutual sexual satisfaction will benefit.
3. Cervical
Cervical orgasms are the most soul-altering type of vaginal orgasm that women are capable of achieving.
Cervix literally translated from its Latin origin means “the neck of the womb”. The cervix is located at the deepest part of the vagina and marks the entrance to the uterus. The cervix responds to the pelvic, hypo-gas trie, and vagus nerve-systems. While the clitoris use mostly the pudendal nerve-systern. (This is to say, cervical orgasms feel entirely different for your partner than clitoral.)
Cervical orgasms are produced though repetitive deeply penetrations either by your fingers or your penis (this is where those advanced PC muscle exercises really come in handy) as you push deeply into the cervix inside of your partner’s vaginal canal. If you possess the sexual stamina necessary to induce a penetrative, cervical orgasm, both you and your partner will know when she has experienced this. If she has already had a clitorai or G-Spot orgasm prior to the build up of her cervical orgasm, it will be easier to achieve, often taking somewhere between four to fifteen minutes of penetration.
Women have described a deep sense of release when experiencing a cervical orgasm (similar to feelings that can be induced by the G-spot orgasm). Some have experienced emotional breakthroughs that allowed them release old trauma or emotional pain. They felt open, free, and loving as if for the first time after they first experienced a cervical orgasm with a partner.
Imagine having tension in your lower back for your entire life and not knowing that it was a kind of tension could be released. The first time you met a masseuse who could relief you of your lower back tension in the course of one session would be transformational and life-changing. I assume you would be quite grateful to that masseuse. The deep sense of release and closeness that they felt upon achieving a cervical orgasm (including a rush of oxytocin-the connection hormone) brought them and their partners closer together than anything else they had ever experienced.
Raise your sexual stamina, connect emotionally with your woman and make sure that she feels relaxed, and make your way up through this three part hierarchy orgasmic bliss.
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