If you’ve been with someone for a while, sex can become routine. It doesn’t matter how attracted you are to each other, eating even prime rib every day can get old. Even if you’re a relatively new couple, sex can get a little boring if you don’t venture into new territory ever so often. Dressing up is a fun way to bring a sense of adventure into your bedroom that you never believed possible. Women especially love fantasy and imagination and when you’re able to show your woman that you’re ready to play that game with her, her response will be more than gratifying.
Women often dress up for men, wearing stockings and garters, fancy bras and panties and all manner of get ups. Men, though, seldom get in on the act. There’s something about it a lot of guys can’t get down with.
Like toys, playing games in which you and your woman take on roles, wear costumes and act out sexual fantasies doesn’t mean you’re boring, or that you’re not enough for her. It just means she wants to play act.
Kids spend half their lives play-acting, performing scenes from their favorite TV shows and movies. Why do we stop doing it? There’s something about childhood ending and adulthood beginning that makes us think we’re not supposed to have that kind of fun anymore. But as with toys, role-play can give adults a whole new arena to explore, sexually and open up our sexual worlds, making them more fun and fulfilling.
Listen carefully to your partner. Find out what turns her crank and what sort of scenes she’d like to act out. Maybe you’re the plumber, come to “clean her pipes”，or maybe you’re a politician out knocking on doors and looking for votes, asking what he "can do” to get that vote. The sky is really the limit and it all depends on the two of you and what sets you off.
Careful with any assumptions you make about women’s fantasies. There’s an old idea in circulation that what women really want is to be dominated. While that may be true for some, other women find the idea a real turn off. Before you assume she wants to act out a scene like that, make sure you’re on the right track. Don’t assume. Remember why you’re reading this - to figure out how to bring the Big Bang, each and every time (and more than once, bucko).
There is nothing that will get a woman hotter than you striding into the bedroom in a pair of suspenders, a hard hat and a cup. That’s just one get up. There are thousands more. Fireman, police officer, cowboy, James Bond, you name it. Pick your woman’s brain for clues about what she might like to see and then surprise her with your enterprising and innovative approach to bedroom antics. Your only limitation is your imagination and your woman’s. Take the time to talk to her. Tease those thoughts out of her. If you can’t, then just get the party started, yourself. You’ll find she’ll be pleasantly surprised and that it’s the element of surprise that will open the floodgates to her secret garden of orgasmic delight.
Before you know it, the two of you will have a tickle trunk full of fun stuff to wear. You’ll be surprising each other and having the kind of sex you’ve always dreamed of, with your woman in the sweet land of multiple orgasms every time you so much as look at her. Be her fantasy. Find orgasmic happiness.
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