The best way to pleasure your woman is to first ask her if she would like more orgasm of great sex. Chances are high that even if the woman is tired after the first round, the oxytocin in them will make them say yes. It is in the biological nature of a woman to keep saying yes until they are tired beyond exhaustion. The journey to the destination of divine sex starts with a tiny first step- asking. Getting to know your woman's view about a second round can go a long way in just kick-starting your pleasure but also building a healthy relationship between the partners. It may be possible that she is not in the mood for it anymore. Female bodies act in weird ways. They feel the need for pleasure and the constant cramp pains at the same time and may end up getting confused because of the same. It may help clear things up if you simply take the courtesy to ask them. You also have to keep in mind that you must not force your partner to succumb to your man’s needs. Remember that they are humans after all and must be treated with the same respect you would want anyone else to treat you with. The act of asking not just clears things up as to the intention of your partner but also cements the relationship by building trust and compassion between you two.
You would be surprised as to what male body part is considered to be the best tool to make a woman achieve the best orgasms. Contrary to popular belief, it is not the human penis. Humans have got ten of them and each one of them could be put to efficient use. We are talking about fingers here. The magic your fingers can weave is unimaginable. A woman simply loves it when her man uses his fingers to stimulate in her a wave of pleasure. Here is how fingering is often considered a better way to achieve orgasm than the regular penetration.
A regular penetration involves the arrival of the human penis into the female partner's vaginal tract. Now let us assume that this penis is average in length and girth. It is a possible scenario that the act of penetration is not something new to both the partners. So our basic premise is that the partners indulge in sex regularly and are no aliens to it. The female partner is now so familiar to being penetrated by her male's tool that she does not feel the magic anymore. The penis, being such a familiar organ to her, can no longer arouse her the same way it did the first time. The honey-moon phase, probably gone by now, vows to never return. It is during such a scenario that the man must take help of other parts of his body. This is where the fingers come in.
This is what a man and a magician have in common - the trick lies in their fingers. If you know how to effectively use your fingers, you are the real MVP. Here are some tips on how to best put your fingers to use.
Start by slowly rubbing the part right above the woman's vagina. This is the part where the pubic hair grows and is usually more prone to stimulation at the start of a session. Rubbing is the step wherein you make sure that your partner is made ready for the session. The first step should not be given a miss just because it is a monotonous process. You have no idea how rubbing effectively arouses a woman sexually. You can use your entire palm to give affect to rubbing.
After you have successfully induced arousal through an act of rubbing, you must now move ahead and start introducing your index finger into her clitoris lips. Remember that these lips are highly sensitive and should be handled with as much caution as possible. Do not rush into her vagina. Despite how you do it during normal sex; you must always keep in mind that it is the slow man who takes home the prize and not the fastest one. Moreover, you are fingering, and not battering a ram into her tract.
Your index finger should not low into her vagina. Take extra care that you are gentle at first. After you have effectively fingered her using just your index finger, you will notice that she has started to grow wet in her vagina. This is the indication to your next step.
You are now at a very crucial stage of fingering. Do not let this moment go and introduce your middle finger while keeping your index finger still inside of her. Make sure that this second introduction is not too rushed or too slow. Take a midway and adjust the fingers according to her moans. Learn to read the signs related to how your woman reacts during fingering. If she moans gently, it is a conspicuous indication towards the fact that she has started to enjoy this venture of yours.
If her moan is a little louder then it simply means that she is so exhilarated that she wants you to do it more. However, if her moan is one that of pain, then stop immediately. Despite how regularly you guys have sex, it is possible that she does not feel aroused yet and your act of fingering is causing her pain and discomfort. If you read such sins the wrong way, you will end up turning her off sexually.
After both your fingers are inside of her, start the slowing slowly. First, make an inward action with your fingers and then low out as if digging earth out of a pit. Your action must always be synchronized with her reactions. Look out for signs that may signify whether she is getting into the mood or not. Do not rush into it. Be careful about how she is responding to the fingering.
The slowing movement indicated in the previous process is the bare essential of fingering. You have to gently claw out her vagina, without causing her any unease. For best results, you may want to trim your nails before indulging into any such acts. Make sure that you trim your nails at least two days before such a session as newly cut nails may have sharp edges and other protruding leftovers that are likely to cause rashes and serious harm to the female genital.
The fingering is not limited to just two fingers alone. You can always keep your other fingers busy with the act to maximize the pleasure. You must have seen in some classic porn videos how the male partner uses all the hand digits to incite the female partner. Use your thumb to press tightly against her vaginal entrance. This action has an arousing effect on the female. The slapping of thumb against her entrance is an act that is bound to send her into frenzy.
While your fingers are engaged in weaving their magic, do not neglect the other body parts of your female partner. Make sure that you use your other hand to grab her by her love handle or her thighs. Fingering usually starts with rubbing, as we saw it in the first step itself. However, this rubbing needn’t be limited to the rubbing of the pubic region. You can always start with the thighs. The human thighs are one of the most vital body parts when it comes to arousal. For all you know, you could simply caress the thighs and make your woman each climax by doing only that.
The art of fingering is all about being gentle and thorough. While you are ultimately going to be explicit about fingering as the moments advance, most men commit the mistake of neglecting the slow part. You should never rush into a fingering. Keep your pace slow and then constant afterwards. It is only by maintaining a steady and slow pace that you can correctly arouse a woman. Your female partner deserves to achieve the best orgasm of her life and fingering is one of the brilliant ways to make her attain that pleasure.
As it has been described in one of the previous chapters, foreplay is that stage of a full-blown sex session that almost decides how the entire session is going to pan out. Fingering is generally considered one of the basic steps in a good foreplay session. Fingers may be less thick and less strong than a human penis but they have amazing effects on the female partner. If you follow the above mentioned steps to a good foreign session, your woman will be grateful towards you for giving her one of the best times of her life.
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